There was an article written in Esquire titled The Observation: The Demise of the Blowjob stating that the days of the blow job are ever. Seriously? No.
This was brought to my attention by a blog post, Where Have All the Blowjobs Gone? Why Esquire Is Wrong in Open Salon, stating that this simply wasn’t true and that it is in fact the days of the
“reluctant” blowjob that are over. Here here! I have a good number girlfriends (girls that are friends) and we speak openly about sex, oral sex included. Go figure, the girl that writes on oralsex.com talks openly about sex with her friends. I can only think of one friend who dislikes giving blowjobs. I realize that I probably roll in a circle of ladies that may be more comfortable in their sexuality than the average broad. I could very well be wrong about that as I have done no research to prove such a statement is true. My point here is that I am on board with the author of the Salon.com article writer, Rachel Kramer Bussel, in that the days of blow job lovers are not gone!
The writer of the Esquire article also states that he was alarmed to find out that men like receiving BJ’s less these days. Why? Because most of his friends said they would rather go down on a woman than get a blow job? So what? That doesn’t mean they suddenly want nothing to do with a mouth on their cock. It simply means they enjoy giving more than receiving; it doesn’t mean that they no longer wish to enjoy oral delights. You know what else, most of my friends enjoy giving blow jobs over receiving cunnilingus. People (not all) enjoy the act of pleasing their partner. They like being in control. They like bringing pleasure. They like knowing that they are rocking someone’s world. It’s an ego boost and there is certainly nothing wrong with ego boosts. Also, people just enjoy making others feel good. I like cooking dinner, but it doesn’t mean I don’t like ordering pizza every now and then.
The blow jobs haven’t gone anywhere. They’re alive and happy as they’ve ever been. Rachel is right. The days of the women giving head with disdain or lackluster enthusiasm are far closer to being extinct than blowjobs themselves. Instead of feeling obligated to suck cock, women are excited and turned on by it. They enjoy the act. Sure, there are those out there that don’t care for it, but that’s just life. All things aren’t for all people. If you don’t enjoying giving blowjobs but continue to do so, stop this very instant.
I hope you enjoyed my rant. Now go read the original articles.
