Sometimes the balls need a little love.  They’re there.  They want to be noticed.  They’d like to say hello.  They’d like to get in on the fun.  Let them in and make them feel welcome in your oral sex life.

Here are a few suggestions:Happy Balls

Start with what you know: A blow job.  While his member is in your mouth, place the palm of your hand underneath them.  You can gently cup them or just let them know you’re there.  Let them feel the ever so slight pressure of your hand and the warmth of your skin.  Support them.  Give them a little break from gravity.  From here you can caress them softly using a slow circular or back and forth motions with the palm of your hand.  Increase the pressure with ease and feel free to experiment as long as you proceed with care!

Some suggestions for moving from his cock to his balls: Once you’ve given his wang a once over, go ahead and be playful about it – slide your tongue down his shaft, like a reverse lollipop, until you reach his scrotum.  You can also exchange the tongue action for kisses.  Start at his head with sweet little kisses and make your way down.  Make sure your lips are nice and wet.  Work up a little saliva and let it be a part of all things oral.  Keep stroking his cock, or least keep a nice comforting grip on it.

*Side Note: If they’re not clean, don’t lick them.  Guys, if you know there is a little funk happening down there, be a dear and let her or him know.  There’s also nothing wrong with saying, ‘hey, I would love for you to do this, let me go wash up.’  They might decide to devour your funkiness.  There may be some bacterial issues involved, but you can at least warn them!

There you are with his balls staring you right in the mouth.  It’s go time.  As with all things sex related, you can always turn back.  Otherwise, get to work!  Start with a little licking.  Don’t lap them up like a thirsty animal.  Instead, use slow licks.  Get used to the texture of his sack.  You can use the tip of your tongue to make imaginary shapes or get into it with nice firm strokes using a flat tongue.  See what he likes and spend extra time doing that.

Now that you’ve kissed them and made them feel loved, it’s time to pop one in your mouth and start sucking!  Okay, that may have sounded a little ridiculous, but look, we’re talking about sucking on balls here.  It’s OK to take it with a sense of humor.  Roll one around in your mouth, add a little sucking action, and let your tongue be a part of the fun.  Keep you fangs retracted.  There is no need to get your teeth involved.  This post is not about cock and ball torture!  If you’re getting into it, go ahead pop the other one in there and suck, lick and enjoy his entire sack.  You can always pull back if he doesn’t seem into it, but there is a pretty good chance that he will be loving life, especially if you’re stroking his cock along the way.

Don’t be afraid to come up for air and get a nice healthy mix of ball and cock sucking going.  Your hands can be involved in stimulating both his penis and his jewels as well.  Let the saliva flow freely.  Most importantly, be gentle and communicate!

I hope this has been helpful in getting you on your way to taking his marbles into your mouth.  If one or both of you don’t like it, there is no need to force anything.  You can walk away at least knowing you tried.

 

 

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Happy Friday.

I have been dubbed by fans and critics as the “Deepest Throat In Amateur Porn”.

This is in many ways so flattering.  So I thought I’d share some photos and thoughts.Naughty Bits 2

Most girls who “Suck Dick”, or what not have NO idea what they are doing.  Why?  Because they really never take the time to learn.  This has always made me wonder why they do not.

I find sucking cock in many ways is an art form and very arousing at the same time. I have many a times had an orgasm or two from sucking on a dick.

I remember the first time I sucked a dick.  I wasn’t really sure how I felt about it.  Then I start to take an active interest in learning how to.

Most guys saying getting a bad blow job is better than no blow job at all.  I find this statement so disheartening.

Women who  are hot though, like super hot know that they don’t have to be good at it.  There isn’t a guy in the world who would turn down the offer.  BUT, they won’t be brutally honest with her either.  She will walk away from that sexual experience feeling like she was really good at it.

Face it guys you will not be honest and this is your down fall.  Teach this girl the right way.  Even if she isn’t with you for the duration.

Give her the tap, or whatever, but be honest with her.

I have spent years perfecting oral sex, I wanted to know exactly how.  I researched it.  I got feed back etc.

I have often wondered would anyone here like info?  Stories?  How to’s?

Well let me know and we can take this whole thing farther.

 

 

Maddy

www.mariesplayplace.com

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Being in sex biz, talking about oral sex is like talking about what you’re going to have for lunch.  It happens often and it isn’t all that shocking.  I totally love what I do, but I have long since forgotten what it is like to talk about sex in a not-so-everyday way.  I like to think I know a thing or two about oral sex and that I what I have to say is pretty useful.  But, when you want to know what women want and like, I think it is pretty important to hear what women that don’t necessarily eat, sleep and breathe sex – in the most work related of ways – have to say .  Well, perhaps a couple of ladies that do that too. I decided to poll some of my friends with two basic questions: What do you like the most about giving oral sex?  What do you like the most about receiving oral sex?Oral Sex Poll

These ladies all come from different backgrounds with varying sexual orientations.  The one thing they all have in common is that they are all awesome.  Here is what they had to say:

Giving: “I like giving oral sex because it helps get me in the mood too. I think the best part is making the other person like putty in your hands.”
Receiving: “What I love most about receiving oral sex is that I can turn my brain off and just be completely in the moment, without a care in the world!!”
-Jenn

Giving: “I like when the guy makes noise – it lets me know I’m doing a good job!  Complete silence weirds me out.”
Receiving: “I wouldn’t know – it’s been too long!  Sad face.”
-Richelle

Giving: “When it comes to oral sex, what I love most is the taste; the warm, wet delicate skin; the reaction.  Yum.”
Receiving: “I don’t particularly enjoy receiving oral sex.  I need a lot of pressure on my clit, and licking just doesn’t ever do it for me.”
-J.D.

Giving: “I get a great deal of pleasure knowing that I’m pleasing my partner. The better the orgasm for them, the better mine will be. In fact it’s like foreplay. It gets me aroused and ready, like stretching before a good run.”
Receiving: “I’m clitorally stimulated much easier than vanginally. The more oral sex, the better. I also find that oral sex has a certain sensitivity, when done right it’s both passionate and caring; and can set a tone for a long session of sex or prolonged orgasm.”
-Sophie

Giving: “Bringing pleasure to others makes me happy and I like doing things I know I’m good at. And in general I find it really arousing, bodies are sexy to me.”
Receiving: “It feels great and it gives my partner an opportunity to showcase their talents.”
-Dr. Timmaree

Giving: Well, I enjoy the slurping sound, just like a popsicle. It makes me feel as good as it sounds.
-Kelli

Giving: “I enjoy pleasing my partner and he goes nuts (no pun intended) when I give him oral. Plus I feel like I am in the driver seat in this situation.”
Receiving: “For me on the other hand I don’t need to receive oral all the time. I like to keep it to an “every once in a while” thing as I feel like it keeps the novelty of it alive. I’m all for it, but most times I’m more turned on by vaginal intercourse.”
-Rosalee

Giving: I love the control part. I can make him cum, or make it feel like a backrub; relaxing and undeniably awesome. I also love to make him feel good. It makes me feel good.
Receiving: 2 Things. First, I love that the lucky man going down on me has no reservations about my body, and he loves it as much as I do. Number 2 would be the orgasm that I will soon acheive.
-Leslie

It is no secret that women love oral sex.  Isn’t it nice to know exactly what it is that they love about it?

One of the most pressing topics related to oral sex is the ever-looming stigma of degradation. Many people do not enjoy giving oral sex because they feel degraded when doing so. This prompted us to look deeper into how those who like giving oral sex feel when they do.

Featured below are the opinions of three different major female players within the adult industry today. Camille Crimson, Misti Dawn and Jayda Diamonde were all asked the same set of questions focused on their personal viewpoints of giving oral sex.

Their answers are very interesting in comparison to those who feel the opposite.


Camille Crimson Oral SexCamille Crimson
Owner and Star of TheArtofBlowjob.com

Do you enjoy giving oral sex? Why?

Yes, I certainly do. For me, the power of giving someone pleasure is extremely erotic. Being skilled at oral sex and knowing that I really turn my partner on is a really passionate and connected experience.

Have you given oral sex to both men and women?

Yes I have. I’ve definitely given more blowjobs, since I run a blowjob website, but I’ve had experience with women as well.

Do your personal feelings differ between giving men Oral Sex and giving women Oral Sex?

Not at all. I think some people are conditioned to think that giving a man pleasure is somehow degrading whereas giving a woman pleasure (whether from a man or a woman) is about respecting her sexuality. I think that, in both cases, it’s about respecting sexuality and exploring new possibilities.

Do you feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?

Not at all! I feel empowered and enthusiastic and really excited. Giving pleasure is a huge turn on!

Do you have any advice for women who feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?

I think it’s just important to look at the context of the situation. Would your partner feel degraded giving you pleasure?

Talk to your partner about respecting you (not calling you names you don’t like, not pushing you to do things you feel uncomfortable with, not being too dominant while receiving oral sex) and make sure that you get the respect you deserve. But putting your mouth on someone’s genitals is in no way demeaning in and of itself. As long as he surrounding elements are all respectful, just focus on the joy of giving pleasure and you’ll find yourself starting to get aroused.


Misti Dawn Oral SexMisti Dawn
Adult Star & Owner of TheNaughtyNerd.com

Do you enjoy giving oral sex? Why?

I do.. BUT to people i care about. When giving it for work, its typically just work unless its someone i know/care about. But giving oral in real life is much different. I find giving oral sex to my partner to be very pleasurable and enjoyable for both parties. To put someone in your mouth is a very personal thing to do, and to see the look of enjoyment on their face when you look up is very satisfying.

Have you given oral sex to both men and women?

Yes, and i enjoy doing both.

Do your personal feelings differ between giving men Oral Sex and giving women Oral Sex?

Not one bit.

Do you feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?

Not at all. It can be a submissive or dominant thing. You can be in control of their pleasure or be submissive in pleasing them.

Do you have any advice for women who feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?

I would say look to why you feel it’s degrading and what parts seem that way to you. Did you have a bad experience? Then you can address how to remove those things from oral sex that cause you to feel degraded by it.


Jayda-Diamonde-Oral-SexJayda Diamonde
Adult Star & Owner of CamSharks.com

Do you enjoy giving oral sex? Why?

Do I enjoy it??? Well, I wouldn’t say I simply enjoy it, actually… I LOVE IT!!
I pride myself on taking a fat thick cock balls deep with NO hands! I love the feeling and it actually make me cum sometimes!! Oral sex done right, can be one of your mans most favorite things. Lets face it, its a different world for men. Sex doesn’t always come easy for men, like it can for any women. Guys cant just walk in a bar and go “I want to get laid”. Its a tough world out there and when I can satisfy my man at a moments notice on my knees, whats not to enjoy?

Have you given oral sex to both men and women?

Of course I have performed oral on men and women and I’ve had it done on me from both sexes, sometime at the same time!

Do your personal feelings differ between giving men Oral Sex and giving women Oral Sex?

As far as giving it goes, I prefer giving oral to men. There is nothing quite like the feeling of stuffing a huge fat cock all the way down my throat with no hands and looking and listening to the man as he can sit back, relax and really let himself go.

Do you feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?

Degraded? Of course not. Oral sex is just another part of the long list of sexual pleasures I believe everyone should be able to enjoy. There is nothing degrading about oral sex in my opinion in any way. To the contrary, I believe it is a way to really connect with that person on an intimate level and assure that your man can really enjoy himself to the fullest. Oral sex is a great way to show just how much you appreciate your partner.

Do you have any advice for women who feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?

Well, I feel sorry for anyone, man or woman that feels degraded when giving oral sex. Oral sex is a beautiful thing that allows you to show your deepest desire to please your partner on a one on one intimate level. It isn’t a bad thing, like your mother may have told you. I suggest that all men and women embrace your sexuality and open your horizons to another type of sexual pleasure that can really keep your partner cumming back for more!

Arden covers Oral Sex on CameraIn Today’s thoughts on Oral Sex — How to have responsible Oral Sex on the Record!

 

Hey you exhibitionists and sexy geeks, it’s safe to say that home videos are a little more… complex… than they used to be, right? Sex on film is one of my favorite topics, and D.I.Y. smut is a lot more versatile than you might think. I know that only a small percentage of men & women out there aspire to become porn stars– yet the majority of sex scenes made are not mass produced… they’re shot in your bedrooms you dirty girls & boys! That’s OK with me though! I’m definitely on board with occasional self made entertainment– and I have some surprising options you may not have considered…

It’s important to know that not all D.I.Y. porno is equal. Many potential starlets shy away from their private spotlight due to the (extremely rational) fear that the sensitive content could somehow go viral. Yikes! So while you’re the only one who knows what will be appropriate for your private (and possibly public) life– you should know there are safe & discrete ways to fulfill those naughty inclinations. Creating your own Oral Sex flick, no matter how vanilla or kinky, can be fun and exhilarating!

A good first thing to consider when you get started is, Level of Exposure: It’s important to establish clear boundaries right from the gate, so you can relax & enjoy great head while the camera’s rolling.

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Oral Sex Techniques - Use Your HandsGetting handsy is a great way for you and your guy to get more out of oral sex. That isn’t to say that your mouth alone isn’t doing a stellar job of creating boundless pleasure, but the addition of a hand or two can really change it up and add to the fellatio experience for both of you.

I’m talking to you, assuming you are the giver. The addition of your hand can take on a little of the work load to give your mouth a bit of a break, especially if he’s larger than what your mouth can comfortably handle. Sure, a challenge is fun, as is pushing yourself beyond your limits, but there tends to come a point during oral sex when you’re still into it, but your mouth and throat could use some assistance. If you’re a pleaser, and it’s important for you to keep going and maintain equal pleasure, your hands are there for you.

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Hilarious oral sex humor from the classic blockbuster comedy, Old School. Andy Dick teaches a group of married women how to give a blow job correctly. Of course, Andy Dick doesn’t do anything without adding a flare of ridiculousness. Wearing a child’s small rugby shirt and an awful red choir boy wig, he performs oral sex on a poor, defenseless carrot. We’re still trying to figure out if the dog in this scene is real when he is using it as a visual speaking aid.

Grab your vegetables!

In today’s thoughts on oral sex — When the DOW goes down, so should you!

Oral Sex Recession - Arden AdamzI’m a glutton for new articles and perspectives on sex, and mouthy pieces make me particularly excitable. Recently I’ve been noticing that with the influx in recession coverage, thrifty sex information has also risen to the occasion. What’s even more exciting is the new perk up in American consumption of sexual health products. “What in the heck does this have to do with more blow j’s Arden?” You might query. Here’s the break down my horny-recessed-friends… Not only is oral sex free, (alternatively if it is not free it’s less expensive according to several recent right wing news articles) but it’s also considered a damn effective form of contraception– yielding erotic benefits unique to itself.

According to a Forbes.com article* on Sex and the Recession, while industries across the board are taking financial kicks to the balls– sexual aid and sexual health companies are putting out more products than ever before for the increased demand from responsible, sexually active consumers. It’s not much of a surprise– depressed economies and war are known for instigating more sex among citizens, and today we’re still not ready to let our libidos take a slide with the market! When you walk into your local mega mart you’ll find new expanded family planning, sexual enhancement products, and even toys! Embracing new affordable products are helping Americans everywhere recess-proof their sex lives. Don’t let the lack of cushion prevent you from… ok, OK… The point is, despite certain challenges we might face– we can all turn to one of our less obvious past times– Oral Sex.

Arden

* Forbes.com “Sex And Recession” Christopher Varmus

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Camille Crimson is an admittedly nerdy, gorgeous green-eyed redhead with beautiful affinities for both oral sex and web coding. Camille Crimson recently signed a DVD distribution deal with LFP Video to produce DVD videos with her oral sex content on TheArtofBlowjob.com.

Utilizing engaging music, soft visuals and playful themes, Camille and her boyfriend create sensual oral sex videos. Rather than profiting on the less intimate oral sex content being produced by major adult industry studios, Camille Crimson has become successful by focusing on the art and eroticism of couples’ fellatio.

Camille-CrimsonWhen did you give your first blowjob Camille?

Camille Crimson – I was in my mid-teens with my boyfriend at the time.

Did you enjoy fellatio as much then as you do now?

Camille Crimson – Not really. It was fine, but I didn’t see the full pleasure and sensuality of giving really skilled oral sex until I met Mike (my boyfriend) in my early 20s.

What are your favorite things about giving a good blowjob?

Camille Crimson – I really love expanding my skill set, trying new ways to flick my tongue, a new combination of stroking and sucking, a new way to tease his balls. You’d think I’d have found it all after all this time, but there is always a new sensation to discover.

What do you think the most important thing to remember while giving a blowjob is for a female?

Camille Crimson – Just pay attention to his cues, honestly. It’s all well and good to want to deep throat like a sword swallower or to work your tongue like a snake, but he may want you to go easy, focus on the head, stroke him while you suck, etc… A blowjob isn’t a one way performance, so communication is key. Maybe it’ll just be a better reaction to certain stimulation, maybe he’ll try to guide you back to a certain place or maybe he’ll just tell you. No matter how, respond accordingly. This doesn’t mean you have to do only one thing, but keep that special spot/technique in mind and consider it home when you give a blowjob. You can try out whatever you like, but make sure to check in at home base.

What do you think the major difference is between women who like giving blowjobs, and those who don’t?

Camille Crimson – I don’t mean to sound condescending, but I think women who don’t like giving blowjobs might have had bad experiences. Fundamentally, anyone who loves receiving pleasure should love giving pleasure. Maybe they aren’t getting enough pleasure or having their needs listened to. Maybe they’ve had selfish lovers. Maybe they’ve had bad experiences with smell, taste or gag reflexes. I think that more communication would make blowjobs at least palatable. They may never absolutely love it, but there is a way to get in touch with the eroticism of giving pleasure in the right context.

Camille-CrimsonIs there anything a guy can do to make his significant other appreciate giving oral sex more?

Camille Crimson – Give in return, and not just blindly. Ask what feels good and what they want. Then make sure to be well-showered, to eat a healthy diet and to never ever be forceful with thrusts unless asked. And make sure to be appreciative after, because nothing makes you more confident about your blowjob ability than some well-deserved praise.

Were your intentions with your first oral sex video as artistic as they are now?

Camille Crimson – Before we began shooting, we were making websites for others and got screwed out of a big deal. So, at the time there was an element of wanting to find a source of income, but the bigger thing was that we were just done working for other people and their crazy whims. We wanted to work for ourselves. We started with erotic portraiture, so it has always been about art, class and sensuality.

Why have you stuck to producing more oral sex than intercourse?

Camille Crimson – It’s a great niche to be in. Blowjobs are extremely popular, but it’s uncommon to see them done sensually and to be shot in an artistic way with a real couple. The response has been amazing. For now, we’ve got so much going on that we don’t really see the need to expand beyond blowjobs. That could definitely change, but for now, the site is keeping us very busy.

Could you walk us through a typical shoot for TheArtofBlowjob.com?

Camille Crimson – We usually do it whenever the mood strikes us. We talk about what sort of theme (if any) we want, I get dressed/undressed, do my hair and make-up while Mike sets up the lights and cameras. Then, we do a few little tests just to make sure it’s looking good and we get down to business. Sometimes Mike will hold a camera or use a dolly out of frame, so there is some cinematography at work during the shoot, but we don’t usually stop until it’s all over. Then we cuddle and make a snack.

Specifically, what do you think sets your videos apart from other mainstream blowjob content?

Camille Crimson – It’s a mix of art, sensuality and love. Our aesthetic is very different because we put so much effort into the composition, the lighting, the editing, the music… It’s uncommon for that much work to be put into porn, unfortunately. The blowjobs themselves are the polar opposite of the “rough throat fucking” or quick auto-pilot preludes to intercourse that you see in most porn. They’re sensual, full of skill and are genuinely enjoyable to both of us. And the love, well, that’s self-explanatory. We’re not paid to show up and be intimate, not that there’s anything wrong with that. It’s just a different feeling, and it’s hard to put your finger on, but it’s tangible in everything we do.

Camille-Crimson-Black-DressHave you had the same boyfriend through your entire adult career? If so, how does he feel about being a cock model?

Camille Crimson – Yes, and we had been together for over a decade when we started. He loves it! He’s the videographer/photographer/editor for the site, so it’s not all blowjobs, but he absolutely adores what he does. He gets to be creative and have lots of orgasms. :)

Do you watch much pornography in your personal time? If so, what are your favorite genres?

Camille Crimson – I do, but I actually watch mostly amateur lesbian/anal stuff. It’s partly because that’s what turns me on, but it’s also partly because it feels the furthest away from the stuff that we watch to see what’s going on in the porn world.

Besides yourself, who is your current favorite adult studio?

Camille Crimson – I honestly don’t know. There are a lot of cool directors, such as Erika Lust and Nica Noelle, who are doing things in a very ethical and sensual way, but there are lots others that I enjoy.

If you could change one thing about the way porn is made today, what would it be?

Camille Crimson – Well, I would probably change a bunch of things. The big thing would be that I’d want porn to be more contextualized. It’s fine if you want to have a rough blowjob site, but make it clear that the women are enthusiastic about this kind of rough sex, that it’s not the only way to have sex, that mutual pleasure is important… Like it or not, a lot of impressionable people watch porn and we have to try to make it clear that sexuality isn’t exactly what we see on the screen in mainstream porn.

Do you see yourself producing your style of pornography as a director with other models in the future?

Camille Crimson – Yes, in a way. We’ve already started with a new couple, but instead of directing them, we’ve given them the tools and tricks to make porn with the same artistic look and they can have full intimacy with what they do, no one else in the room! It works really well. Their names are Lilyanne and Max and they’re really amazing people. They’re really passionate about showing beautiful, romantic and sensual sexuality, so I think the site is going to be a huge hit. It’s at PornographicLove.com.

See more of Camille Crimson at the links below:

TheArtofBlowjob.com (Main site)
Dolorem.com
IUseMyFeet.com
TheBeautifulPorn.com
Camille Crimson Official Blog
Camille Crimson Official Twitter
Camille Crimson Tumblr
Camille Crimson Official Facebook
Camille Crimson Flickr Photos