Oral Sex Techniques - Use Your HandsGetting handsy is a great way for you and your guy to get more out of oral sex. That isn’t to say that your mouth alone isn’t doing a stellar job of creating boundless pleasure, but the addition of a hand or two can really change it up and add to the fellatio experience for both of you.

I’m talking to you, assuming you are the giver. The addition of your hand can take on a little of the work load to give your mouth a bit of a break, especially if he’s larger than what your mouth can comfortably handle. Sure, a challenge is fun, as is pushing yourself beyond your limits, but there tends to come a point during oral sex when you’re still into it, but your mouth and throat could use some assistance. If you’re a pleaser, and it’s important for you to keep going and maintain equal pleasure, your hands are there for you.

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Oral Sex Tips - Take ControlMany individuals we have spoken to lately have expressed concerns about how oral sex should occur between two people for the first time. More specifically, how one should ask for oral sex without knowing if their partner even likes giving and/or receiving it. Our answer to this classic sexual conundrum is fairly simple.

Take control of your questions.

Basic strategy dictates one must have information before making a decision. Therefore, someone needs to make a move toward oral sex before an answer can be obtained. We understand this may be more difficult and uncomfortable for the more submissive varieties, but fear has no place in the bedroom. Communication, whether via spoken word or obvious body language, is key to having the best oral sex possible with any individual. So, if you’re not getting any of the signals you need, gently force the issue.

Now, the use of “gently” is very important in this oral sex tip. We are not condoning grabbing someone by the back of the head, and thrusting your genitals in their face before they can react. Make your gestures blatant, but easy to respond to.

For example:

“Donny and Dana have just returned after meeting for the first time at their local bar, and are continuing a spirited make-out session whilst coming through the front door. Donny shuts the door behind him, and the frisky duo falls to the carpet. Dana undoes Donny’s belt and smiles at him while taking hold of his erection. Getting more and more turned on, Donny then passes over Dana’s legs and straddles her chest to present himself for fellatio.”

…. ERRRRRR – WRONG: Stop on a Whammy!

Although this move can be very good for couples who are already comfortable with their boundaries, there is no way Donny could have known if Dana likes to give fellatio. He just shoved his thing in her face, hoping for the positive side of a 50/50 chance. Let’s rewind a bit and see if there is a better way for Donny to proceed.

“Donny and Dana have just returned after meeting for the first time at their local bar, and are continuing a spirited make-out session whilst coming through the front door. Donny shuts the door behind him, and the frisky duo falls to the carpet. Dana undoes Donny’s belt and smiles at him while taking hold of his erection. Getting more and more turned on, Donny wraps his arms around Dana and rolls her to the top. Dana giggles a bit while slowly rotating her hips, and Donny runs his fingers through her hair. He tilts his head sideways, letting Dana kiss down his neck, and says, “If you wanted to kiss lower, I would return the favor.” Dana responds by kissing down Donny’s stomach, and takes him into her mouth for the best blowjob he has ever experienced.”

Ding Ding Ding!

This time around, Donny’s actions gave Dana ample time to refuse giving oral sex. Not only did this make Dana more comfortable with Donny as an oral sex partner, but it also most likely “sealed the deal” for him getting any further than where the first oral sex scenario ended. Keep your partners’ right to their decisions in mind, and you will find much more willing oral sex in your future.

During a dinner conversation, fairly normal for us, the topic of oral sex toys was brought up. The immediate suggestions of flavored lubes were obvious, but we wanted something more indicative of what an oral sex toy sounds like it should be. A physical toy made for enhancing oral sex. During our research, we came across SexToys.com. A very easy to use website with some interesting oral sex mechanisms. Over the next couple weeks, we plan to show you some oral sex toys which may make your oral sex endeavors better than ever.

Oral Sex Toys - Lingo Vibrating Tongue RingMeet the Lingo Tongue Vibrator. Created by Screaming O, this oral sex tongue vibrator has been designed to fit below the base of the tongue, with the vibrating bullet resting on your licking surface. Two round knobs at the bottom of this vibrating tongue ring keep a snug fit for better control. Simply press a button to start the vibrator, and listen to your oral sex partner’s sounds of approval.

The Lingo Tongue Vibrator is waterproof, so don’t worry about having an electronic device in your mouth. Although, the device is a one time use due to it’s moisture safety. The battery life of this oral sex toy is 40 minutes, but we’re certain its good for multiple orgasms. The vibrator is covered in super soft gel, made of safe SEBS food-grade silicone, and comes with a ribbed surface for extra pleasure.

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Actual user review:
“This thing makes oral sex even better… which i didn’t think was possible. I love vibrators, but me and my hubby wanted to find something we could use together. His tongue feels so good on my clit when it vibrates. I have to try and not cum too fast! He says it’s snug on his tongue, but it doesn’t bother him.”

Oral Sex - Male G-SpotAlthough the term “G-Spot” is normally used in reference to the female, men also have such a thing. In fact, to many women’s shock and jealousy, men have three major G-spots women can utilize to their advantage during oral sex. We have spoken a lot on the importance of communication between partners, but not everyone is comfortable directing another person in bed. Understanding where these areas are can help women become “sex goddesses” in their strong, silent men’s eyes. Easily inducing strong orgasms with little to no help at all. So, where is the famed penile pleasure trinity located?

The first, and most taboo of the three, is the male prostate. The prostate is located approximately two inches inside of the anus, and has been described as feeling similar to a chestnut-sized sponge. Stimulating the prostate with the pad of your finger can induce great amounts of pleasure, and heavy orgasms for a man. Although, being located in a place most men have deemed “off limits” creates a necessity for both communication and preparation before utilizing the prostate. Women should make sure their men are aware of their intentions to play with the anus, and always use lube before carefully inserting a single finger.

The second male G-spot is located on the patch of skin directly between the anus and scrotum, and is called the Perenium. Also known as the “taint”, both gently rubbing and applying pressure to the perineum can have pleasuring effects on men during oral sex. Rumor also has it that applying pressure to the perineum during intercourse can keep the penis erect longer. This makes using the perineum advantageous for both the male and female’s gain.

The third is located on the underside of the head of the penis, and is named the Frenulum. The frenulum is a large bundle of nerve endings which can create spasmic pleasure when stimulated. This area only increases in sensitivity as the penis becomes more engorged and aroused. Rubbing the Frenulum should be the focus of oral sex, but not it’s entirety. The male frenulum works very similar to the female clitoris. Too much pressure at the beginning of foreplay can be uncomfortable, but more attention is welcome as climax is approached.

Use this information wisely, and you should have your man humping your leg while watching movies on the couch in no time. 😉

Well Hello there Oral investigators, it’s been a productive week for oral sex! Today I bring you a story fresh off the set of a new AltPorn Network film where I’ve spent the last week doing everything from menage tois shoots, to spanking new comer Quinn Kelly over my knee. I’m pleased to report that there were tremendous oral encounters all along the way– even a few first’s for everyone!

Mon. 6/6

Shower prior to shooting: Quinn is a new comer so we had never met before, let alone had a chance to properly acquaint ourselves– so I offered to help shave her pussy (by the way, this pick up line is to be used with extreme caution. Frankly men should disregard it all together.) We got nice and wet in the shower and I had her prop up one of her fiercely long legs up on the wall so I could get to her creamy pussy. While on my knees looking up, I lathered soap from her thighs, to her plump ass, and finally around her then fuzzy pink pussy. I loved looking up and seeing everything covered in foam but the slit of her pussy and ass! She received a very attentive shave, and was very helpful in spreading her pussy for me whenever I needed her to do so. Once we rinsed off her lips felt so slick and smooth– totally worth the effort. I licked around her pussy and let the water from the shower splash between her thighs and my face. She held my long hair for me while I teased her and sucked on one of her lips. Once my tongue dipped inside her slit I’m not sure what happened– I may have lost some time.. I loved feeling the wetness of her pussy mixing with the water in my mouth…

Tue. 6/7

On set we shot a 2 lady, 1 gentleman scene today
— I love the results almost as much as I loved shooting it (which would be impossible to surpass)! There were two very sexy/memorable events today that I ought to mention– Monday night we decided that scissoring would be a really fun first time for both girls– and we take fantasies very seriously around here! So as we were getting warmed up for the huge dick on set– we went for it! We took a moment to think about the hows and wheres of course, then we overlapped legs and pressed our lips together. Yes. It was hot, wet, incredible, arousing, even slightly more exciting than I anticipated. So exciting that we even tried to figure out how to arrange for our now really stiff male star to penetrate our scissored lips– but it was far to advanced for our mere 10 minutes of total time in that position. All in all it was agreed that touching pussies was insanely hot– but requires great stamina and the ability to laugh with yourself & those around you while having sex. The other event I’d like to mention occurred while shooting an intense fucking scene earlier. After our new comer climaxed, I was instructed to lick the cum off of our male talents throbbing hard-on. I gladly accepted! I’ve only been able to indulge in this once or twice before so it was a real treat! Her cum was perfect all over his cock, making him slightly sweet… The perfect conclusion? After I licked his shaft clean, he gave us a facial together.

Thurs. 6/9

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::It seems like the coolest oral experience for the week was saved for last! This was a first time for me– where I was able to have a lovely wet snatch and huge cock on my face at the same time!!! Honestly I have thought about it several times per day every day since then because it was really that serious.:: Quinn and I started the show with mutual masturbation. We then progressed into a short Over-the-Knee spanking scene, and eventually made it into a boy, girl, girl three some. As the two girls in the trio, it was fun to use our mouths together, rotating our tongues, lips, and sucking on him repeatedly. She and I put our mouths on either side of his thick shaft, letting him push through our soft lips. Once we got that technique down we alternated for awhile, and switched gears a little allowing her to go into doggy with me guiding her hips from the front. It was hot to watch, so before long I asked if I could position my head under all the action (his dick & her snatch). It was phenomenal! I loved being able to use each and every sense at once on two people… By simply extending my tongue, I could taste her wet lips AND his stiff dick! I will say that it’s a bit overwhelming, and if you aren’t mindful of your position it may become difficult to breathe. Don’t let this serve as any sort of discouragement though… it’s perfection, and I’ll be doing it again as soon as possible!

Arden Adamz

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A step by step process for bringing your female lover to an amazing oral climax.

1. Look in her eyes and tell her how beautiful she is! Kiss her! Spread your fingers, star-like, through her hair on the back of her head as you make love to her mouth, slowly… cautiously… Always, with a woman, read her rhythms and respond to her cues. Imagine you’re a male Black Widow spider, and at any moment your lover might gobble you up if you displease her. Take care not to bore her with the same motions, and do not proceed to the second step until you’ve milked this kissing & caressing for all it’s worth, and she’s ready for more.

2. Hold her in your arms so she can feel your strength, your masculinity. Kiss her forehead, nuzzle your face into her hair, whisper in her ear how good she feels, smells, tastes. Tell her you’ve never wanted to lick & suck a woman like you want to right now. Tell her you’re going to eat her pussy, and she’s gonna love it… but she’s gotta be patient, she’s gotta lie back and let you enjoy every inch of her body. Let her know she’s gonna feel so good. Oh yes, she’s gonna love this.

3. Now… gently lift her hair off the back of her neck, and kiss the nape where her skin is soft and baby-fine hairs catch your breath and send shivers down her back. From the back of her neck, move forward with your mouth to the front of her neck (careful, she may be ticklish!) and then under her neck, above her breasts, to an area most guys never even look at, much less kiss.

Use this “no man’s land” as a base from which you’ll work back up to her mouth, then down towards her breasts… then up to her mouth again, and then down closer to her breasts… Back and forth like that. First, give equal time to her mouth & chest, but as you get closer to those beautiful breasts, lessen the time you spend on her mouth and linger longer on her chest and neck.

Your hands tease her, too. Graze your palms barely across her nipples when you’re kissing her mouth, and then run your hands softly up the sides of her neck & thru her hair when your mouth is reaching towards her breasts. Eventually, she will be bending her body to meet your mouth, trying to get you to suck her breasts. So you play with her… touch your tongue an inch or two above her nipple and pull away if she lunges towards you. Look her in the eye and say, “No, not yet,” and then swoop your mouth down her rib cage, under her arms, anywhere but the breasts. Don’t touch those boobies till she’s squirming.

4. Now kiss her breasts! Remember, when you stimulate a woman’s breasts, she feels a wonderful, tugging sensation deep, down below… in the pleasure-center from where her orgasm flows. So strong is this “pull” that some women can orgasm from breast-play alone, but don’t count on that. Instead, focus your energies on building her passion, fanning the fire so she’s burning by the time you lap her labia!

Since not all women enjoy the same stimulation, you’ll need to figure out what she likes by trial and error. Experiment with different ways to touch and taste her breasts; remember what works, then move onto another technique. If you get a luke-warm response, heat her back up with one of her favorite moves before trying another new one on her.


Some suggestions:

a. Knead her breasts gently but with all your hands, like you were kneading dough.

b. Pinch her nipples — hard. Many women appreciate a strong grip here. Careful with the teeth, though!

c. Have her hold her breasts for you to kiss. You can pull her fingers into her mouth along with her nipples… very sexy.

d. Nuzzle her underarms as you stroke her breast/nipples.

e. Wet her breasts with your mouth, then softly blow across them.

f. Gently rake your nails across her breasts (a man’s short nails still produce an interesting sensation)

g. Try licking her breasts thru her shirt or the sheet. The feel of wet fabric against nipples can be very exciting.

h. Stretch her hands over her head and hold them there together with one hand, while you adore her breasts with your mouth and free hand. Many women find this helpless feeling thrilling.

i. Anything that feels right at the time!


5. By now, she’s hot. Keep kissing her breasts, but start creeping your hand down her back, then over to her stomach, across her thighs… on your way to her mound of pubic hair. Take your time (remember the spider?) and when you feel daring enough, when you feel she’s ready, and her hips keep moving up towards your hands, let your fingers rake across her pubic hair, then dip your hand down between her thighs — not into the slit, yet, but on top of it — just hold your hand against her pussy for awhile, while your mouth continues to work on her breasts. It should seem to her as though your hand had a mind of its own, that your attention is still focused on her face, neck and breasts, though new sensations are stirring in her nether regions.

6. Your hand should now be cupped between her legs, the ball of your palm against her clit and your fingers down near her hole. Now, still kissing her breasts… move your fingers. Gently. Stroke her pussy upward, from her hole to the mound, taking care NOT to penetrate that juicy slit. Can you feel the heat & wetness, yet? If not, go back to Step One, my friend, you’re moving way too fast.

Let one finger dip deeper than the others, to meet the wetness and spread it around. Kiss her harder as your finger presses further into her slit, lengthwise, avoiding her clit and her vagina (for now). Is she’s moving her body to meet your hand, trying to guide your probing deeper? It’s dinnertime!

7. Stop kissing her breasts, but leave your finger where it is. Look her in the eye, tell her you’re hot, tell her you can’t stand it any longer, she must let you have her. If she’s shy, perhaps you’ll want to whisper that she must relax and close her eyes… If she liked you holding her hands over her head when you kissed her breasts, then maybe you can get a little bold, and tell her to lie back & spread ‘em! Or ask her to kneel over your face, or whatever position you find most comfortable. Let her know what’s coming, make her shiver with anticipation!

8. Rekindle the mood, but don’t linger too long, since you told her you’re going for it. Kiss her belly, kiss her thighs, massage her buttocks with one hand while your mouth moves… stroke her legs and feet if she likes that, but keep your lips & tongue near her pussy… keep a finger or two gently stimulating her slit…. lick your fingers, to make sure they’re wet!

9. Now… place a wet finger over the folds of her vulva and deftly part your lover’s pussy. Look at it. Note the pearly pink folds of her labia, the wrinkled clitoral hood at the top and the the inviting hole at the bottom. As you look, tease her pussy with a soft warm breath: “Huuuufff” ever-so-gently. As with breast-play, every woman likes different things, so you’ll need to learn the areas, sensations and rhythms that give her the most pleasure and excitement.

Communication is essential! If her physical cues are hard to read, ask her if what you’re doing feels good, ask her how it could feel better, ask her where her clit is, if you need to, rather than fumble around. Say to her, “Oh, your pussy is so hot and swollen with excitment, baby, is this where your delicious little clit is hiding?” A few women don’t like direct clitoral stimulation, so once you’ve found the right spot, make sure she wants you on it. Most of all, relax and enjoy! No one expects you to be perfect.

10. Begin. Many women enjoy a massage of the mons (the mound of skin on top of the pubic bone). Take one or both of your hands and carefully move the mons and surrounding area, in much the same way you would massage someone’s shoulders. Don’t press too hard or circle so wide that you’re pushing on her abdomen, which can be uncomfortable. As you manually stimulate the mons, move your mouth to the vulva.

11. Lick against her labia and vaginal entrance. Nuzzle, lick and suck each “lip,” flicking your tongue up to her clitoris — but don’t concentrate there, yet. Just gently and tenderly lick & kiss her labia, working your lips and tongue. Some women will like rapid motions of continuous licking while others prefer long, slow caresses, so experiment! If you get tired, try changing angles, placing a pillow under her hips or giving your neck a rest by settling your head over her pussy and sucking gently. Or, lie your head on her thighs or belly and continue stimulation with your fingers.

12. You can continue in this way until your partner has an orgasm, but most women need three to five minutes of direct clitoral stimulation to climax. Not only do different women prefer different stimulation, but a woman who normally likes it “hard ‘n heavy” might find one night she’s too sensitive for anything more than delicate fingering, so always approach the clitoris with caution.


Some suggestions:

a. Place your tongue or moistened finger slightly under her clit, then hook it upwards so you’re pressing flat against the clitoral hood. Hold and pulse up against her clit — don’t move across her skin, but rather stimulate her with varying pressure and rhythms till you find one she likes.

b. Circle her clit with your lips, and suck gently. Or, softly press on clit between wet thumb and finger.

c. Lay your tongue flat against the top of her pussy, with her clit at the strongest part of your tongue and your chin against her labia. Press your mouth –your whole face, really– into her as hard & fast as she wants it.

d. Move your tongue in a side-to-side motion across her clitoris. Again, vary speed and pressure to her liking. Some women can cum from feather-light tickling of the very tip of her clit, others prefer a heartier approach.

e. Close your lips over her clit and as you administer pressure, make a “Mmmmm” sound with your mouth. The vibrations drive some women crazy.

f. Stiffen your tongue, place it on the tip of her clitoris, and move your head from left to right as though you were saying “no,” but do it rapidly so your tongue is brushing against her clitoris a dozen times a second. Caution: this technique provides very intense stimulation!


13. Some women enjoy the feeling of penetration during oral sex, especially during direct clitoral stimulation. Try thrusting your tongue into her vagina while you suckle her clit, or use your finger(s). Some women will want a pumping action, while others simply like the feel of something inside them.

14. Orgasm. How do you know when she’s a-cumming? Watch her! Let her moans and body movements clue you in. Many women will shake or quiver as the tension builds in their bodies; at this point, it’s important to continue stimulating her in the same way until she climaxes, otherwise, you could break her rhythm. Also, almost half of all women experience their strongest orgasms when their legs are closed, so if your lover begins squeezing your head between her thighs you may want to adjust your position or at least brace yourself.

15. After orgasm, some women are simply too sensitive to tolerate any more clitoral stimulation. Others may want you to keep going, and going, and going. Most women are multi-orgasmic with the right stimulation, so keep this in mind as you kiss her thighs, her tummy, her neck (careful with the face, though, some women don’t appreciate a big sloppy kiss of their own juices).

Tell her she felt & tasted incredible, tell her you want to make love to her, if you do, and don’t be surprised if she cums again with your penis deep inside you. Afterwards, let the touching and caressing continue as long as you both enjoy it.

Well done!

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A step by step process to making your man explode from oral ecstasy.

1. Check him out, from head to toe, and let him see you looking. Tell him he’s handsome, sexy; he’s turning you on. Kiss him and let your mouths mingle, your tongues explore and retreat.

2. Step back, now, and let him look at you. Unbutton your shirt or take it off, so he can see your beautiful breasts. Stare him down while you play with your nipples, making them erect. If he reaches for you, tell him no. Tell him you have other ideas. Tell him you’re wet. Tell him you can’t wait to feel his hot, hard cock deep inside you…deep in your throat. Smile defiantly, like your head is swimming with all kinds of incredibly nasty ideas, even if you don’t consider yourself terribly experienced. Let his imagination fill in the blanks. The mere thought of a woman with a dirty mind is exciting!

If you’re going to swallow, tell him you’ll enjoy every drop. If you’re not going to swallow, ask him to tell you when he’s ready to shoot, so you can dodge the bullet, so to speak. Say to him, “Baby, I’m going to make you feel soooo good, you just do me one little favor. Tell me before you cum in my mouth, cause I might want to hold your dick in my hand, so I can feel & watch you cum on my tits.” No man in his right mind would balk at that.

3. Are you in a monogamous relationship? If not, you’ll need a condom. The lubricated condoms most people buy usually taste terrible, so think ahead and purchase some non-lubricated condoms. If you’re turned off by the taste of latex, buy flavored condoms or lubricant to turn oral sex into an epicurean experience.

4. Now get comfy. Optimally, you’ll want a position that allows you easy access to his penis, scrotum and anus, while also providing him a nice view, should he happen to open his eyes. Many men are extremely turned on by visual stimulus, so if your man is into watching you fill your mouth with his manhood, by all means put on a good performance! Return his gaze and let him see how much you love driving him wild!

A common position is when the man lies on a bed with you above him, so you can align your throat easily with the angle of his erect penis. Kneeling in front of him works well, too, especially when you want to hold his hips & thrust him into your mouth. If kneeling is hard on you, try sitting on the floor while he rests in a chair or on the edge of the bed. There are no rules, here, just make sure you’re both relaxed and at ease.

5. Ready? Almost, but not quite. Take some time to look at his penis and kiss the tender skin of his tummy, his thighs, his scrotum. Talk to him with your face oh-so-close to his penis, so he can feel your breath against him while you tell him how your mouth is watering and your heart is thumping and it’s taking every ounce of will power you’ve got not to swallow him whole! Now flick the very tip of his penis with your tongue, then tell him in your breathiest voice (so the air tickles where you moistened), “But we’re gonna take our time and make this last!”

6. Begin. Take his penis and place it gently in the palm of your hand. One thing to keep in mind is that the penis, though a sensitive organ, is not as delicate as the clitoris. Though all men are different, you’ll probably need a firm grip to fully stimulate his penis. You’re not hammering nails, of course, but you’re not dusting fine china, either. Start by holding his penis as you would a tennis racket, and then ask him if he likes more or less pressure.

7. Run your tongue along the head, thoroughly moistening it, then wet your own lips with your tongue. Now… stretch your mouth until it covers the tops of both rows of your teeth. Why? First, you don’t want to nick or cut the tender skin of his penis and second, your covered teeth now form a firm, smooth ridge that most men find very stimulating, squeezing down on their shaft.

8. After forming the ridge, gently insert his penis into your mouth. Slowly move your mouth down the base of the penis, and then back up to the head again. If you need more lubrication, re-wet your lips and his penis a few more times with saliva. Experiment with different speeds. Some men will want you to stick to a slow, sleady, in-and-out stroke, others prefer strong, quick stokes, still others like a combination.

9. If he moves his hips, accompany this movement. Try letting him set the rhythm; steady your head, and let him thrust himself in and out of your mouth. If you have a hard time keeping up, control the amount of penis you take in your mouth by wrapping your fist around the base of his penis. Keep this hand-under-lips technique in mind, too, if your jaws get tired. Give yourself a rest by simply wrapping your lips around his penis head, letting your hands do all the pumping.

10. While your mouth moves up and down his shaft, let your tongue flutter and caress him. Keep in mind the penis’s most sensitive areas: the head, the base, the seam of the penis running from the scrotum to the head, and –perhaps the “hottest spot” of all– the frenulum, which is the delicate vertical membrane just below the head, on the underside of the penis.

11. Communication is crucial! Watch your lover’s physical cues and if you’re unsure, ask him if what you’re doing feels good and ask him how it could feel better. Many men find it hard to talk frankly about their needs, so coax him. Tell him you want to please him, tell him his excitement makes you hot, and that hearing him say what he wants will turn you on!


Some oral sex moves he may (or may not) enjoy:

a. Flick your tongue lightly, very lightly, back and forth across the frenulum, like strumming a banjo. Now run your tongue down to the base of his penis and back up again a few times, then return to flicking, only this time flick all the way up and down the underside of the penis.

b. Continually circle his penis clockwise (or counter-clockwise) with your tongue as you are sliding his shaft in and out of your mouth. This move takes a little coordination, but most guys feel it’s well worth your effort.

c. Use your mouth like a little vaccuum. Purse your lips at the tip of his penis and then suck the head softly into your mouth, then slowly slide him back out. Repeat, but this time suck a down a little farther, till you’re about halfway down his shaft, then slowly slide him out. Many men find this suction action irresistable.

d. Sometimes, ice is nice. Cool your mouth with a swig of chilled water and swirl your icy tongue around his shaft. Alternately, a strong peppermint like Altoids or mouthwash can produce similar tingly sensations. Suck his shaft as you move down toward the base, and then release slightly on the way back up, drawing air into your mouth (like you’re saying, “Ooooh”) and giving his penis a chilly little breeze!

e. Hold his penis in your mouth by sucking firmly and shaking your head at the same time, like saying “No” (but you’ll make him say Yes!)

f. If you’re very careful, your teeth can make a great prop. Hold his penis in your mouth sideways, like an ear of corn, and slide your teeth and tongue up and down the shaft — lightly!

g. Hum while you have his penis in your mouth to give him good vibrations. Just don’t hum anything that would kill the mood, like “Amazing Grace” or “The Star Spangled Banner.”


12. Do you feel like “deep-throating”? Though good fellatio certainly doesn’t depend on this technique (in fact, many men don’t even notice when you do it), you may want to try to take his penis past the gag reflex in your throat. This skill takes some practice. The key is to position yourself so that your mouth and throat creates one straight line; the best way is to lie on your back with your head hanging off the edge of the bed. Take a deep breath and have your lover insert his penis. Don’t panic that this blocks your breathing, you’ll be able to catch a breath on each out-stroke. If you feel the urge to gag, swallow. With patience and practice, the gagging will subside.

13. Too many people concentrate solely on the penis, which is a shame because there’s so much more! While stimulating his penis, massage his butt, his thighs. Fondle his balls, lick his scrotum… take a testicle very gently into your mouth and suck ever-so-softly. Rub your face in his pubic hair and whisper how much you love giving head!

Here’s another fun thing: a very sensitive area lies between his balls and his anus, the perineum. Many men enjoy having this spot licked or stroked in either a circular or back-and-forth motion, and often you can give him a rush of pleasure by rigorously massaging the perineum just before climax.

14. Do you dare attempt an anal invasion? Many men view their anus as an “Exit Only” hole, but these men are missing perhaps one of the most stirring sensations of sex: the prostate massage! First, make sure your fingernails are trimmed and your finger is sufficiently moistened, or dipped in lubricant. Then, gently run your hand from the perineum to the anus and massage the little pucker. When you feel him relax, push your finger (palm side up) into his anus. Slowly raise your finger until you feel a bump, which is the prostate. This gland grows throughout a man’s life life so it may be the size of a golf ball in young adulthood to as big as a pear in later life. Stimulation here provides incredible sensations! Try it at the moment of ejaculation and you may blow your man’s mind!

15. Orgasm. Most men will warn you when they’re ready to cum (it’s the polite thing to do), but sometimes in the heat of the moment they forget. Watch for signs. Some guys tense up or get very still, as if to brace themselves. Other guys make tell-tale facial expressions, and with others you may notice a change in breathing patterns. If you’re going to swallow, prepare by sliding his penis as far back into your throat as possible. Unless you enjoy a snoot-full of semen, seal off your nasal passages like you’re going under water, and get ready to gulp.

If you don’t want to swallow, quickly withdraw his penis from your mouth and continue bringing him to climax with your hand. Or, slide his penis between your oiled breasts, or the lubricated crack in your bottom. If you’re sufficiently excited, switch to vaginal intercourse and let him cum inside you.

Afterward, let him rest. He may be sensitive to touch; if not, stroke his hair, his face, and whisper what a wonderful time you had. Massage his chest and shoulders, or let him roll over so you can rub his back and buttocks. Don’t be surprised if he’s reluctant to kiss you on the mouth until you brush your teeth or gargle with mouthwash. Respect the fact that many men (and women) don’t appreciate a sloppy-wet kiss of their own juices.

Also, don’t be offended if your man needs a nap, consider it a compliment to your love-making that he’s been so thoroughly spent. Go pour yourself a glass of wine, snuggle next to your sleepy guy and bask in the glow of your own fantastic oral sex abilities.

Cheers to you!

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Performed in sequence, these techniques will lead your man to an explosive orgasm!

#10. Full Body Contact: Rub the penis over your face, brush your lips against the head, press it into your breasts and nipples. Squeeze your breasts around the penis, blow gently on the tip as it peeks out of your cleavage. Bend your head and flick the penis lightly with your tongue (if you can reach).

#9. Side biting: Cover the penis head with your fingertips, holding it gently but firmly in one hand. Then, press your lips firmly against the side of the shaft, softy nibbling with your teeth while sliding your lips up and down the length. Careful with the teeth!

#8. Half-pressing: Press your lips against the penis head, swallow it about halfway down the shaft, then slowly pull it out of your mouth using a drawing-out motion. Release the penis for a few seconds, and blow gently on the tip. Repeat.

#7. Full-pressing: Press your lips against the penis head –tightly now– and suck down the shaft. Slide your lips up and down its full length, periodically releasing it from your mouth to increase agitation and anticipation.

#6. Kissing: Use this “cooling off” technique to delay the inevitible now that he’s fully erect, excited and ready to cum. Take the penis in your hand and gently stroke it, moving the foreskin back and forth briefly. Smother the entire shaft with soft kisses, taking time to brush your lips and tongue over the head, very gently.

#5. Licking: Following the light kisses, lick the entire surface of the penis with a light, flicking motion of your tongue. Give special attention to the penis head, especially the underside, and by all means don’t forget about his testicles! Careful, though, some men have extremely sensitive balls and cannot handle a lot of attention here.

#4. Merry Go Round: Move your tongue in circles around and around the penis while sliding up and down the shaft. Let your hot breath provide further stimulation against the wet skin!

#3. Just Say No: Suck the penis firmly into your mouth and shake your head as though you were saying “No”. Travel up and down the shaft like this, sucking and shaking him to ecstasy. Making “mmmm” sounds as you do this will create wonderful tingling sensations!

#2. “Sucking the Mango”: Use your lips and tongue as if you were sucking juice from a mango. Take the highly-aroused penis into your mouth about halfway, then forcefully suck and press hungerly with your lips. Roll your tongue around the head at the same time… delish!

#1. Devouring: Suck and press your lips as above, but let your mouth become more frantic. Press your tongue along the shaft, rhythmically, at the base of the head. Suck the entire organ, if possible, into your mouth as though you’re trying to swallow it. From the base to the head, suck up and down the shaft with your lips and tongue, ever increasing your vigor. If you continue this action, eventually the penis will ejaculate.

Oral Sex Videos - How to SwallowYou have seen the Educational Sex Series DVDs on Fellatio and Deep Throat and you are prepared to take those oral sex techniques that one extra step. But what about those nagging questions? Is it good for me? Are their any dangers? Can I get pregnant? Does it taste bad? How to Swallow answers all of these questions and many more.

Our hostesses take you through the whys and wherefores of swallowing. It is a very simple technique that can be a simple turn on or demonstrate great intimacy. They weigh the pros and cons and present a logical argument for the oral sex practice.

Did you know a man can change the taste of his semen. Simple things like eating certain foods, refraining from smoking or drinking alcohol can influence the taste. So sit down with your partner, enjoy the DVD and a bowl of fruit. After all it’s your oral sex life. What are you going to do about it?

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