Oral Sex Tips Cunnilingus TempoOne of the things many women complain men do wrong when they give oral sex today, is they are far too overzealous. Gentlemen, these are girls we are talking about. They take extra time showering, extra time dressing, extra time talking on the phone, and more extra time in plenty of other instances. What makes you think a woman would want receiving oral sex to be any different?

Instead of immediately slamming your five o’clock shadow into the most sensitive spot on her entire body, take your time and enjoy yourself. The entire vulva loves to be licked and sucked upon, so start light and shallow. Begin by gently licking the outside of her labia, and taking each lip into your mouth to massage them with your tongue. Once she shows increased body language, move on to gently rubbing your tongue flat against her clitoris, and flicking it with the tip. We guarantee you’ll have her far more turned on than if you were to take the Speed Racer route.

Making yourself comfortable exploring the vagina helps to keep a woman relaxed with what you are doing down there. The more relaxed she becomes, the easier it will be to make her orgasm. She will also most likely be more willing to direct your efforts, making it less of a challenge to understand her oral sex desires in the future.

Oral Sex Techniques - Use Your HandsGetting handsy is a great way for you and your guy to get more out of oral sex. That isn’t to say that your mouth alone isn’t doing a stellar job of creating boundless pleasure, but the addition of a hand or two can really change it up and add to the fellatio experience for both of you.

I’m talking to you, assuming you are the giver. The addition of your hand can take on a little of the work load to give your mouth a bit of a break, especially if he’s larger than what your mouth can comfortably handle. Sure, a challenge is fun, as is pushing yourself beyond your limits, but there tends to come a point during oral sex when you’re still into it, but your mouth and throat could use some assistance. If you’re a pleaser, and it’s important for you to keep going and maintain equal pleasure, your hands are there for you.

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Oral Sex Tips - Take ControlMany individuals we have spoken to lately have expressed concerns about how oral sex should occur between two people for the first time. More specifically, how one should ask for oral sex without knowing if their partner even likes giving and/or receiving it. Our answer to this classic sexual conundrum is fairly simple.

Take control of your questions.

Basic strategy dictates one must have information before making a decision. Therefore, someone needs to make a move toward oral sex before an answer can be obtained. We understand this may be more difficult and uncomfortable for the more submissive varieties, but fear has no place in the bedroom. Communication, whether via spoken word or obvious body language, is key to having the best oral sex possible with any individual. So, if you’re not getting any of the signals you need, gently force the issue.

Now, the use of “gently” is very important in this oral sex tip. We are not condoning grabbing someone by the back of the head, and thrusting your genitals in their face before they can react. Make your gestures blatant, but easy to respond to.

For example:

“Donny and Dana have just returned after meeting for the first time at their local bar, and are continuing a spirited make-out session whilst coming through the front door. Donny shuts the door behind him, and the frisky duo falls to the carpet. Dana undoes Donny’s belt and smiles at him while taking hold of his erection. Getting more and more turned on, Donny then passes over Dana’s legs and straddles her chest to present himself for fellatio.”

…. ERRRRRR – WRONG: Stop on a Whammy!

Although this move can be very good for couples who are already comfortable with their boundaries, there is no way Donny could have known if Dana likes to give fellatio. He just shoved his thing in her face, hoping for the positive side of a 50/50 chance. Let’s rewind a bit and see if there is a better way for Donny to proceed.

“Donny and Dana have just returned after meeting for the first time at their local bar, and are continuing a spirited make-out session whilst coming through the front door. Donny shuts the door behind him, and the frisky duo falls to the carpet. Dana undoes Donny’s belt and smiles at him while taking hold of his erection. Getting more and more turned on, Donny wraps his arms around Dana and rolls her to the top. Dana giggles a bit while slowly rotating her hips, and Donny runs his fingers through her hair. He tilts his head sideways, letting Dana kiss down his neck, and says, “If you wanted to kiss lower, I would return the favor.” Dana responds by kissing down Donny’s stomach, and takes him into her mouth for the best blowjob he has ever experienced.”

Ding Ding Ding!

This time around, Donny’s actions gave Dana ample time to refuse giving oral sex. Not only did this make Dana more comfortable with Donny as an oral sex partner, but it also most likely “sealed the deal” for him getting any further than where the first oral sex scenario ended. Keep your partners’ right to their decisions in mind, and you will find much more willing oral sex in your future.

During a dinner conversation, fairly normal for us, the topic of oral sex toys was brought up. The immediate suggestions of flavored lubes were obvious, but we wanted something more indicative of what an oral sex toy sounds like it should be. A physical toy made for enhancing oral sex. During our research, we came across SexToys.com. A very easy to use website with some interesting oral sex mechanisms. Over the next couple weeks, we plan to show you some oral sex toys which may make your oral sex endeavors better than ever.

Oral Sex Toys - Lingo Vibrating Tongue RingMeet the Lingo Tongue Vibrator. Created by Screaming O, this oral sex tongue vibrator has been designed to fit below the base of the tongue, with the vibrating bullet resting on your licking surface. Two round knobs at the bottom of this vibrating tongue ring keep a snug fit for better control. Simply press a button to start the vibrator, and listen to your oral sex partner’s sounds of approval.

The Lingo Tongue Vibrator is waterproof, so don’t worry about having an electronic device in your mouth. Although, the device is a one time use due to it’s moisture safety. The battery life of this oral sex toy is 40 minutes, but we’re certain its good for multiple orgasms. The vibrator is covered in super soft gel, made of safe SEBS food-grade silicone, and comes with a ribbed surface for extra pleasure.

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Actual user review:
“This thing makes oral sex even better… which i didn’t think was possible. I love vibrators, but me and my hubby wanted to find something we could use together. His tongue feels so good on my clit when it vibrates. I have to try and not cum too fast! He says it’s snug on his tongue, but it doesn’t bother him.”

Oral-Sex-Tips-SmileOral sex aficionados may have their techniques down to a science, but there is always room to improve. Many people simply dive face first into oral sex with their partner, and remain deeply focused on bringing them to fruition. Where the focus and effort are surely appreciated, something is also lost.

What happened to the fun?

An integral part of any foreplay technique is the element of “tease”. There are many sub-elements which come together to create a successful tease, and some vary depending on each couple’s sexual dynamic, but I would like to focus on your pearly whites for now. Whether your sexual attitude lie more on the devious or the innocent side of the spectrum, showing enjoyment of the process to your partner can carry your sexual experiences far beyond the limits of physical prowess. Of course this concept makes logical sense when receiving oral sex, but it is even more important when giving it.

As the receiver of oral sex, ruling out the 69 position for this article’s sake, a person is at their most vulnerable. Think back to the last time you were on the receiving end of things. Regardless of how much you attempt to control your giver, you are entirely at the mercy of their mouth on your fun parts. Now, let me ask you a question while the image of your last partner’s face between your legs is fresh. Doesn’t it make you feel less restricted when the giver looks as if he/she/he-she is enjoying the oral sex process as well?

When giving oral sex of any attitude, make sure you make eye contact and smile at your receiver. If you’re into the more dark and devious side of oral sex, the smile sends a message of devious pleasure directly connected to controlling your receiver. For the more innocent variety, smiling makes your receiver that much more comfortable enjoying your oral sex. Both will guarantee a much more fluid exchange of emotion.


Fatman Scoop and his wife Shanda sit down to teach you the finer points of performing oral sex on women. Scoop’s descriptions of the art of cunnilingus have enlightened the staff here at OralSex.com. As a direct result of his oral sex innovations, we may be posting on the “wine swish” and “jolly rancher” oral sex techniques very soon. One thing about this video is made very clear though, Shanda’s clitoris must be very happy with Scoop’s lips. Every woman in our office sat up and commented, “Wow, now those look fun..” while watching him demonstrate his masterful “pussy-ology”. Although, we’re not quite sure how the beard feels on the ass at this point. There may be an oral sex survey conducted here on whether male facial hair is welcomed or feared during cunnilingus.

Thank you to Fatman Scoop and Shanda for creating these hysterical sex education videos at ManAndWife.tv!

Oral Sex - Male G-SpotAlthough the term “G-Spot” is normally used in reference to the female, men also have such a thing. In fact, to many women’s shock and jealousy, men have three major G-spots women can utilize to their advantage during oral sex. We have spoken a lot on the importance of communication between partners, but not everyone is comfortable directing another person in bed. Understanding where these areas are can help women become “sex goddesses” in their strong, silent men’s eyes. Easily inducing strong orgasms with little to no help at all. So, where is the famed penile pleasure trinity located?

The first, and most taboo of the three, is the male prostate. The prostate is located approximately two inches inside of the anus, and has been described as feeling similar to a chestnut-sized sponge. Stimulating the prostate with the pad of your finger can induce great amounts of pleasure, and heavy orgasms for a man. Although, being located in a place most men have deemed “off limits” creates a necessity for both communication and preparation before utilizing the prostate. Women should make sure their men are aware of their intentions to play with the anus, and always use lube before carefully inserting a single finger.

The second male G-spot is located on the patch of skin directly between the anus and scrotum, and is called the Perenium. Also known as the “taint”, both gently rubbing and applying pressure to the perineum can have pleasuring effects on men during oral sex. Rumor also has it that applying pressure to the perineum during intercourse can keep the penis erect longer. This makes using the perineum advantageous for both the male and female’s gain.

The third is located on the underside of the head of the penis, and is named the Frenulum. The frenulum is a large bundle of nerve endings which can create spasmic pleasure when stimulated. This area only increases in sensitivity as the penis becomes more engorged and aroused. Rubbing the Frenulum should be the focus of oral sex, but not it’s entirety. The male frenulum works very similar to the female clitoris. Too much pressure at the beginning of foreplay can be uncomfortable, but more attention is welcome as climax is approached.

Use this information wisely, and you should have your man humping your leg while watching movies on the couch in no time. 😉

Well Hello there Oral investigators, it’s been a productive week for oral sex! Today I bring you a story fresh off the set of a new AltPorn Network film where I’ve spent the last week doing everything from menage tois shoots, to spanking new comer Quinn Kelly over my knee. I’m pleased to report that there were tremendous oral encounters all along the way– even a few first’s for everyone!

Mon. 6/6

Shower prior to shooting: Quinn is a new comer so we had never met before, let alone had a chance to properly acquaint ourselves– so I offered to help shave her pussy (by the way, this pick up line is to be used with extreme caution. Frankly men should disregard it all together.) We got nice and wet in the shower and I had her prop up one of her fiercely long legs up on the wall so I could get to her creamy pussy. While on my knees looking up, I lathered soap from her thighs, to her plump ass, and finally around her then fuzzy pink pussy. I loved looking up and seeing everything covered in foam but the slit of her pussy and ass! She received a very attentive shave, and was very helpful in spreading her pussy for me whenever I needed her to do so. Once we rinsed off her lips felt so slick and smooth– totally worth the effort. I licked around her pussy and let the water from the shower splash between her thighs and my face. She held my long hair for me while I teased her and sucked on one of her lips. Once my tongue dipped inside her slit I’m not sure what happened– I may have lost some time.. I loved feeling the wetness of her pussy mixing with the water in my mouth…

Tue. 6/7

On set we shot a 2 lady, 1 gentleman scene today
— I love the results almost as much as I loved shooting it (which would be impossible to surpass)! There were two very sexy/memorable events today that I ought to mention– Monday night we decided that scissoring would be a really fun first time for both girls– and we take fantasies very seriously around here! So as we were getting warmed up for the huge dick on set– we went for it! We took a moment to think about the hows and wheres of course, then we overlapped legs and pressed our lips together. Yes. It was hot, wet, incredible, arousing, even slightly more exciting than I anticipated. So exciting that we even tried to figure out how to arrange for our now really stiff male star to penetrate our scissored lips– but it was far to advanced for our mere 10 minutes of total time in that position. All in all it was agreed that touching pussies was insanely hot– but requires great stamina and the ability to laugh with yourself & those around you while having sex. The other event I’d like to mention occurred while shooting an intense fucking scene earlier. After our new comer climaxed, I was instructed to lick the cum off of our male talents throbbing hard-on. I gladly accepted! I’ve only been able to indulge in this once or twice before so it was a real treat! Her cum was perfect all over his cock, making him slightly sweet… The perfect conclusion? After I licked his shaft clean, he gave us a facial together.

Thurs. 6/9

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::It seems like the coolest oral experience for the week was saved for last! This was a first time for me– where I was able to have a lovely wet snatch and huge cock on my face at the same time!!! Honestly I have thought about it several times per day every day since then because it was really that serious.:: Quinn and I started the show with mutual masturbation. We then progressed into a short Over-the-Knee spanking scene, and eventually made it into a boy, girl, girl three some. As the two girls in the trio, it was fun to use our mouths together, rotating our tongues, lips, and sucking on him repeatedly. She and I put our mouths on either side of his thick shaft, letting him push through our soft lips. Once we got that technique down we alternated for awhile, and switched gears a little allowing her to go into doggy with me guiding her hips from the front. It was hot to watch, so before long I asked if I could position my head under all the action (his dick & her snatch). It was phenomenal! I loved being able to use each and every sense at once on two people… By simply extending my tongue, I could taste her wet lips AND his stiff dick! I will say that it’s a bit overwhelming, and if you aren’t mindful of your position it may become difficult to breathe. Don’t let this serve as any sort of discouragement though… it’s perfection, and I’ll be doing it again as soon as possible!

Arden Adamz

This funny oral sex video may just be a humorous public service announcement about condom use, but we think it says something more about being a good role model. Parents sometimes forget that our world’s younger generation is learning faster than any generation before, and they are well aware that sex is the reason for their being. Knowing that, parents should take a different approach to dealing with adolescent sexual activity. Yes, the risks of teenage pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases are very real. Although, these facts do not mean making all sexuality “off limits” is an effective solution when communicating with young adults.

Sex is a very personal subject with individuals of every age group, and can be difficult to approach in open conversation. This human response is magnified for a young adult, because their maturity levels simply can not keep up with their increases in hormones. This biological fact creates every horrifying possibility parents believe to be the reasons for abstinence. Thus, we ask parents to try a more understanding approach to the subject. Having open communication with your young adult can be a great defense against the dangers of sexual activity. If you want them to be honest with you, you must be understanding. Would you not expect the same from any fellow adult?

Food for thought

Oral Sex - Orally Yours Oral Sex Education and Entertainment

Everything you ever wanted to know about going down, but were unable to ask cause your mouth was full!

Average amount of semen per ejaculation: 1 – 2 teaspooons
Average number of calories per teaspoon of semen: 7
Fat content: 0
The average ejaculate volume contains 60% of the US RDA for Vitamin C!

Average speed of ejaculation: 28 mph
Average speed of city bus: 25 mph
Distance sperm travels to fertilize an egg: 3 to 4 inches
The human equivalent: 26 miles (a marathon distance)
Time it takes the sperm: 2.5 seconds
Time it takes average person to complete a marathon: 4 hours
Sperm life from development to ejaculation: 2 1/2 months

Average length of flaccid penis: 3.5 inches
Average length of erect penis: 5.1 inches
Smallest natural penis recorded: 5/8 inch
Largest natural penis recorded: 11 inches
Largest penis in the animal kingdom: 11 feet (Blue Whale)

Amount of time needed for a man to regain an erection after ejaculation: 2 minutes to 2 weeks
Average number of erections per day for a man: 11
Average number of erections during the night: 9
Average number of times a man will ejaculate in his lifetime: 7, 200
Average number of times he will ejaculate from masturbation: 2, 000
Average total amount of lifetime ejaculate: 14 gallons
Average amount of water it takes to fill a bathtub: 35 gallons
Percent of men who say they masturbate: 60%
Percent of men who are probably lying: 40%
Percent of men who say they masturbate at least once a day: 54%
Percent of men who say they feel guilty about masturbating often: 41%
Percent of men who should relax and enjoy a natural pleasure: 41%

Most arousing time of day for a man: early morning
Most arousing season of the year: autumn
Most arousing scents to men: cinnamon and vanilla
Aromas that increase blood flow to the penis: lavender, licorice, chocolate, doughnuts, pumpkin pie

Foods rumored to improve sexual function: oysters, lean meat, seafood, whole grains, wheat germ
Top three ways to improve sexual function: stop smoking, excercise, eat right


In general, the taste of a man’s semen varies with his diet. Some say that alkaline-based foods (such as fish and some meats) produce a buttery or fishy taste. Dairy products can create a foul taste, and the taste of semen after eating asparagus is said to be the most distasteful.

On the other hand, acidic fruits and alcohol (except processed liquors) can give semen a pleasant, sugary taste. Examples of foods that improve the taste of semen: mangos, kiwi, grapefruit, oranges, lemons, limes, and flavorful beers like Bass, Honey Brown, Labatte Blue, etc. Corona with lime is double the fun! Mmmm… now savor that sweet, hot ambrosia, shooting down your throat!

Why you makin’ that face? What are you, some kinda cum-phobic? Buck up, soldier, if you wanna give good head you oughtta learn to love every minute, from first lick to the last, lingering swallow! Lots of women are a little apprehensive about the first time they take “The Big Gulp,” so we’re providing here a recipe to reproduce the taste & texture of real ejaculate. Give yourself a chance to get familiar with semen, so you’re ready, willing, and eager for the full experience of oral pleasure. This recipe is also great for partners of the many men out there who no longer ejaculate after prostate surgery, or for cum aficionados who can’t get enough!

Kitchen Cum

– 2 cups water
– 1/4 cup salt
– A handful of dry pasta (ie: spaghetti, linguini, etc)
– 4 drops almond extract, or to taste
– 3 drops bitters, or to taste

Add salt to water and bring to boil in small pot. Meanwhile, pulverize the pasta in a blender or food processor. Cook the pasta in salted, boiling water for 15 to 20 minutes, until total mush. If needed, add a little water to maintain consistency of cum. Add the bitters and almond extract. Empty the mixture into a bowl, cover and refrigerate for several hours until the mix is a jelly-like mass.

Transfer the mixture to small pot, again. Heat to approximately 92 to 94 degrees, thinning with warm water as needed to create a slightly tacky, translucent white liquid.