Sometimes the balls need a little love. They’re there. They want to be noticed. They’d like to say hello. They’d like to get in on the fun. Let them in and make them feel welcome in your oral sex life.
Here are a few suggestions:
Start with what you know: A blow job. While his member is in your mouth, place the palm of your hand underneath them. You can gently cup them or just let them know you’re there. Let them feel the ever so slight pressure of your hand and the warmth of your skin. Support them. Give them a little break from gravity. From here you can caress them softly using a slow circular or back and forth motions with the palm of your hand. Increase the pressure with ease and feel free to experiment as long as you proceed with care!
Some suggestions for moving from his cock to his balls: Once you’ve given his wang a once over, go ahead and be playful about it – slide your tongue down his shaft, like a reverse lollipop, until you reach his scrotum. You can also exchange the tongue action for kisses. Start at his head with sweet little kisses and make your way down. Make sure your lips are nice and wet. Work up a little saliva and let it be a part of all things oral. Keep stroking his cock, or least keep a nice comforting grip on it.
*Side Note: If they’re not clean, don’t lick them. Guys, if you know there is a little funk happening down there, be a dear and let her or him know. There’s also nothing wrong with saying, ‘hey, I would love for you to do this, let me go wash up.’ They might decide to devour your funkiness. There may be some bacterial issues involved, but you can at least warn them!
There you are with his balls staring you right in the mouth. It’s go time. As with all things sex related, you can always turn back. Otherwise, get to work! Start with a little licking. Don’t lap them up like a thirsty animal. Instead, use slow licks. Get used to the texture of his sack. You can use the tip of your tongue to make imaginary shapes or get into it with nice firm strokes using a flat tongue. See what he likes and spend extra time doing that.
Now that you’ve kissed them and made them feel loved, it’s time to pop one in your mouth and start sucking! Okay, that may have sounded a little ridiculous, but look, we’re talking about sucking on balls here. It’s OK to take it with a sense of humor. Roll one around in your mouth, add a little sucking action, and let your tongue be a part of the fun. Keep you fangs retracted. There is no need to get your teeth involved. This post is not about cock and ball torture! If you’re getting into it, go ahead pop the other one in there and suck, lick and enjoy his entire sack. You can always pull back if he doesn’t seem into it, but there is a pretty good chance that he will be loving life, especially if you’re stroking his cock along the way.
Don’t be afraid to come up for air and get a nice healthy mix of ball and cock sucking going. Your hands can be involved in stimulating both his penis and his jewels as well. Let the saliva flow freely. Most importantly, be gentle and communicate!
I hope this has been helpful in getting you on your way to taking his marbles into your mouth. If one or both of you don’t like it, there is no need to force anything. You can walk away at least knowing you tried.
Many individuals we have spoken to lately have expressed concerns about how oral sex should occur between two people for the first time. More specifically, how one should ask for oral sex without knowing if their partner even likes giving and/or receiving it. Our answer to this classic sexual conundrum is fairly simple.
Oral sex aficionados may have their techniques down to a science, but there is always room to improve. Many people simply dive face first into oral sex with their partner, and remain deeply focused on bringing them to fruition. Where the focus and effort are surely appreciated, something is also lost.
Although the term “G-Spot” is normally used in reference to the female, men also have such a thing. In fact, to many women’s shock and jealousy, men have three major G-spots women can utilize to their advantage during oral sex. We have spoken a lot on the importance of communication between partners, but not everyone is comfortable directing another person in bed. Understanding where these areas are can help women become “sex goddesses” in their strong, silent men’s eyes. Easily inducing strong orgasms with little to no help at all. So, where is the famed penile pleasure trinity located?
Orally Yours from Arden Adamz
So my oral friends, the time has come for me to discuss feminine mouthy encounters! You guessed it– cunnilingus! Though I consider myself to be more advanced in the cock sucking department, I’ve also had many adventures indulging in female anatomy. So, in order to properly explore this most “sensitive” issue, I thought it best to take a personal inventory of my pussy and it’s recipe for satisfaction.
Early on in my sex life, I made a lot of beginner’s mistakes. One that really sticks out happens to be my approach to receiving oral. For quite awhile I relied on sheer hope and psychic attempts to guide my partners’ mouth toward satisfying me sexually– a really big mistake! This tactic almost always ended in my frustration and all together avoidance of receiving oral sex. Most adolescent guys go right for a girl’s most sensitive feature, her clit, like its a bull’s eye in a shooting gallery– surely the key to success. Though I’m a huge fan of clitoral stimulation– it truly is my most sensitive part– and direct stimulation is unpleasantly overwhelming. I doubled up on masturbating and riding cock for a few years…When a new fling began making headway between my legs, I’d redirect their attention to something more productive like my head between their legs (This may have something to do with my appreciation for cock sucking, haha!). Occasionally I’d give in and let someone take a shot at going down on me– always with the same results–Thanks, but no thanks! Eventually I met to someone who wasn’t so easily swayed by my diversions. I was hesitant to break my effectively-ineffective routine, but with some reassurance I finally allowed it. I was encouraged to vocalize all along the way, like that game red light/green light we all played as kids? I didn’t cum the first, second, or fifth time he went down on me, but that didn’t matter because I enjoyed each attentive lick, suck, and kiss. For me it was a total revelation– that I could have been enjoying such pleasure all along had I simply said something…
Finally when I began indulging in girl on girl action, I had a better understanding of what it meant to be a good lay. Speaking your mind & vocalizing your desires are sometimes just as important as the physical exchanges we make during sex. I’ve been fortunate enough to have friends who are as open to sexual dialogue as I am, and I’ve heard a lot of ladies share stories similar to mine. I’m always fascinated by how different oral sex can be with each and every individual… “Ask and you shall receive”? Right?
- Arden Adamz