Simply put, there is no other feeling like a mouth on your vulva. It’s warm, wet and so many different sensations can be experienced. Hot or cold air can be gently blown over the pussy lips and whole vulva area. Lips can kiss, ever-so-gently brush against or suck on every inch of her womanly bits. The tongue can be made to be soft, flat and broad, or firm and pointy to lick, swirl, press or flick. Teeth can be used to gently nibble or even apply a bit more pressure for some pain play. Add moaning in and the vibrations traveling up from the throat to the mouth will act like a vibrator on her.

Notice how I said “every inch”? I can’t stress that enough. The clit is not the only part of the vulva that is sensitive to stimulation! Inner thighs, outer and inner lips, the perineum, the urethral meatus, the vaginal opening, the clit and all the other areas there that you can get your mouth on can be incredibly sensitive. It’s about playing around with different speeds (fast is not always better!), sensations, and techniques. Take. Your. Time. The average woman takes 30 minutes of continual stimulation to reach orgasm. It’s all about a nice gradual build up. The worst you can do is try to get her to orgasm right off the bat. Instead, let her know you’re going to be down there for a while and she should make herself good and comfortable. Tease her like you’ve never teased her before. Go painfully slow and explore every fold, nook, and cranny present between her thighs. Pay attention to which types of stimulation she responds to and what areas are really sensitive.

Don’t be afraid to be silly with it. Pinch her outer lips together and move your hands in a motion like you’re trying to jerk her clit off through the lips. Suck, nibble and pull on the lips. When your mouth is on her, play with different moaning or humming sounds; the pitch of the hum changes the feel of the vibrations. Hold her clitoral hood between your lips or fingers and have her do kegel exercises to move her clit up and down and jerk herself off. Or suck her clit off like you’re giving her a blowjob. It’s all about being creative, adventurous and just experimenting as much as you can to find new ‘tricks’.

Some women need the same stimulation over and over again, while others need you to keep switching it up. Personally? Put your fucking fingers in me and get my g-spot going! I can’t stand it when a guy is only using his mouth on me and forgetting how unbelievably amazing it is for him to do that along with his fingers rubbing against my g-spot. But not every woman is the same. Some don’t experience any pleasure from g-spot stimulation or fingering, so TALK to your partner about what she likes. You can also use a hand or two to play with her breasts, push down on her pubic mound, or gently stroke any part of her body that’s within reach.

Oral is all about having fun. You need to be enjoying yourself just as much as she is. It’s not something to be taken so seriously… play around, be silly and that’s when you learn so much more about your partner’s sexual response than ever before. The more you put yourself out there and really work to figure out all the different things you can do to her, the more willing she’ll be when she returns the favour and goes down on you. Encourage each other to be as adventurous and creative as possible and a whole new world of oral pleasure will emerge.

Read more from maxxters at thesexpertslounge.com.

Maxxters is a female in her late 20s and a former high school teacher. She taught Science and Sex Ed to 12-18 year olds. She’s currently working on her Master’s degree in Human Sexuality. She is also an aerobics instructor and personal trainer, working with those who suffer from eating disorders and body image issues. Send her your questions at: maxxters@sexpertslounge.com

It’s not hard to believe that SIM techies are masterminding new ways to get it on. Our natural proclivity is to fuck after all, right? I’ve been known to flirt with kinky apps occasionally. It makes running errands a lot more satisfying when your phone is a versatile piece of sex equipment… and cuts down on the cost of supercharged sex toys that cost about the same. Need an “Advanced Guide To Oral Sex” on the fly? Well there’s an app for that on android. In fact there was even an app (since discontinued) called “Puff” for iPhone that allowed users to lift the skirt’s of Japanese girls by blowing into their cell’s microphone, creating a virtual gust of wind. I digress.

It’s intriguing to check out all of the complex toys and gadgets out on the market that highly trained scientists made for your horny mouth & mind. Did you know there are fascinating new technologies being used in Japan to simulate (hot?) make out sessions with your computer? Kissing robot attachments are currently being manufactured to help bridge the gap between Eastern long distance lovers– then the world! The kit simulates everything from pressure to odor and even has the capacity to memorize oral patterns & uniqueness. As The Dude from The Big Lebowski once said, “Interactive erotic software. The wave of the future, Dude. 100% electronic!”

Future Sex is real, and it’s happening all around us– So I’d like to remind everyone just how important it is to go down on each other in real time. Let’s make an effort to reach our maximum Oral Sex potential before Singularity takes us all by the balls– It probably won’t be much longer till bionic features and robotic limbs start making their way south of the belt loop, hence this important blog.

-Arden

Check out the photos from Nothing But Head and Sweet Throat below.

This is in many ways so flattering.  So I thought I’d share some photos and thoughts.

Most girls who “Suck Dick”, or what not have NO idea what they are doing.  Why?  Because they really never take the time to learn.  This has always made me wonder why they do not.

I find sucking cock in many ways is an art form and very arousing at the same time. I have many a times had an orgasm or two from sucking on a dick.

I remember the first time I sucked a dick.  I wasn’t really sure how I felt about it.  Then I start to take an active interest in learning how to.

Most guys saying getting a bad blow job is better than no blow job at all.  I find this statement so disheartening.

Women who  are hot though, like super hot know that they don’t have to be good at it.  There isn’t a guy in the world who would turn down the offer.  BUT, they won’t be brutally honest with her either.  She will walk away from that sexual experience feeling like she was really good at it.

Face it guys you will not be honest and this is your down fall.  Teach this girl the right way.  Even if she isn’t with you for the duration.

Give her the tap, or whatever, but be honest with her.

I have spent years perfecting oral sex, I wanted to know exactly how.  I researched it.  I got feed back etc.

I have often wondered would anyone here like info?  Stories?  How to’s?

Well let me know and we can take this whole thing farther.

Maddy

www.mariesplayplace.com

Before your lips even meet her skin, start by stimulating her mind with a little dirty talk.  Tell her what you want to do and are going to do to her.  Tell her how much she turns you on.  Tell her that you have been thinking about getting your hands (and mouth) on her all day long.  Use your imagination and read her reactions to gage how far to go.

Ears and Neck: Since you were likely just whispering in her ear, start with little kisses and nibbles on her ear lobes and neck.  Some people like a little biting, but that is definitely something that should be talked about before things get rough.

Breasts: The tatas are filled with tons of nerve endings which makes them perfect for sexual stimulation.  Nipples are incredibly sensitive and some women can even achieve orgasm from having them played with.  On the other hand, some women are so fond of intense nipple stim or they may not like it at all.  Pay attention to her reactions or simply ask if that is something she enjoys.  Be gentle here.  Rough nipple play is something you should get absolute verbal consent for before engaging in it. Otherwise, enjoy!

Rib cage, stomach and back: The torso is filled with sensitive spots that love to be touched.  You don’t need to coat her midsection in saliva, but kissing her all over and gently running your fingertips up and down her body can really make her tingle.  You can even make her think you’re about to go down on her, only to tease and work your way down to her thighs instead.

Legs and Arms: The limbs are often forgotten as a source of excitement.  The arms, especially the “underneath” side can cause quite the commotion in the underpants when kissed.  A little light leg worshipping can make her feel uber sexy.  Paying attention the area behind the knees will make her jaw drop.

Toes: Some of you may be anti-foot fetishists and that is totally okay.  But if you are down with the little piggies, then by all means give them some love.  Having your feet played with can be an unexpected turn on.  Definitely check in to see if she is down with having her toes in your mouth before you treat her big toe like a pacifier!

You aren’t necessarily limited to these parts.  Let your imagination run wild and find out what she likes.  You just might surprise the both you and discover some uncharted erogenous zones that will alter your minds.  Focus on one section or let your lips travel her entire body from head to toe!  Either way, challenge yourself to see how orally creative you can get before or without ever landing between her legs.

The lovely Miss Vette Tweeted that if all of her followers gave her #40Dollars she would give them all blow jobs.  Nice!  Of course she is totally being good sport about the ordeal and I’m sure she isn’t sad about the press.  AVN quoted her saying:

“You can’t plan stuff like that,” Vette says, “I fool around with hashtags on Twitter to keep it fun for followers.  To end up on CNN and Funny or Die is pretty cool. I’m just relieved that people who read the Funny or Die piece thought it was funny, too. It would have sucked if they had voted to ‘Die.’  I guess all my followers were in on the #40dollars joke. I have yet to get $40 bucks from anyone, even though the payroll tax deal was reached. Let’s face it, the chances of me being on CNN unless I have sex with Charlie Sheen or run for governor are zero, so I’ll take it. I’m just bummed my mother watches Fox News… she missed it.”

 If you’re blind like me, here is a close up of her Tweet.

In case you’re considering taking the lovely Miss Vette up on her offer, feel free to check out her work in Cock Suckers – M.I.L.F Edition and Suck It Dry 3.  Don’t forget to follow her on Twitter.

It probably wouldn’t be a bad idea to make sure you have a least one or two gifts under the tree, but oral sex is a pretty good way to let someone know you care during the holidays. I’m definitely not suggesting you send everything back to Amazon in exchange for the blow job of the century or to take a crack at setting the world’s longest cunnilingus session.  I’m simply suggesting that going down on that special someone just might add to their enjoyment of the holidays.  Don’t forget the peppermint flavored lube!

]]> http://www.oralsex.com/2011/12/20/still-not-finished-shopping/feed/ 0 http://www.oralsex.com/2011/12/15/poll-what-do-women-love-about-oral-sex/ http://www.oralsex.com/2011/12/15/poll-what-do-women-love-about-oral-sex/#comments Thu, 15 Dec 2011 16:02:16 +0000 kayv http://www.oralsex.com/?p=609 Being in sex biz, talking about oral sex is like talking about what you’re going to have for lunch.  It happens often and it isn’t all that shocking.  I totally love what I do, but I have long since forgotten what it is like to talk about sex in a not-so-everyday way.  I like to think I know a thing or two about oral sex and that I what I have to say is pretty useful.  But, when you want to know what women want and like, I think it is pretty important to hear what women that don’t necessarily eat, sleep and breathe sex – in the most work related of ways – have to say .  Well, perhaps a couple of ladies that do that too. I decided to poll some of my friends with two basic questions: What do you like the most about giving oral sex?  What do you like the most about receiving oral sex?

These ladies all come from different backgrounds with varying sexual orientations.  The one thing they all have in common is that they are all awesome.  Here is what they had to say:

Giving: “I like giving oral sex because it helps get me in the mood too. I think the best part is making the other person like putty in your hands.”
Receiving: “What I love most about receiving oral sex is that I can turn my brain off and just be completely in the moment, without a care in the world!!”
-Jenn

Giving: “I like when the guy makes noise – it lets me know I’m doing a good job!  Complete silence weirds me out.”
Receiving: “I wouldn’t know – it’s been too long!  Sad face.”
-Richelle

Giving: “When it comes to oral sex, what I love most is the taste; the warm, wet delicate skin; the reaction.  Yum.”
Receiving: “I don’t particularly enjoy receiving oral sex.  I need a lot of pressure on my clit, and licking just doesn’t ever do it for me.”
-J.D.

Giving: “I get a great deal of pleasure knowing that I’m pleasing my partner. The better the orgasm for them, the better mine will be. In fact it’s like foreplay. It gets me aroused and ready, like stretching before a good run.”
Receiving: “I’m clitorally stimulated much easier than vanginally. The more oral sex, the better. I also find that oral sex has a certain sensitivity, when done right it’s both passionate and caring; and can set a tone for a long session of sex or prolonged orgasm.”
-Sophie

Giving: “Bringing pleasure to others makes me happy and I like doing things I know I’m good at. And in general I find it really arousing, bodies are sexy to me.”
Receiving: “It feels great and it gives my partner an opportunity to showcase their talents.”
-Dr. Timmaree

Giving: Well, I enjoy the slurping sound, just like a popsicle. It makes me feel as good as it sounds.
-Kelli

Giving: “I enjoy pleasing my partner and he goes nuts (no pun intended) when I give him oral. Plus I feel like I am in the driver seat in this situation.”
Receiving: “For me on the other hand I don’t need to receive oral all the time. I like to keep it to an “every once in a while” thing as I feel like it keeps the novelty of it alive. I’m all for it, but most times I’m more turned on by vaginal intercourse.”
-Rosalee

Giving: I love the control part. I can make him cum, or make it feel like a backrub; relaxing and undeniably awesome. I also love to make him feel good. It makes me feel good.
Receiving: 2 Things. First, I love that the lucky man going down on me has no reservations about my body, and he loves it as much as I do. Number 2 would be the orgasm that I will soon acheive.
-Leslie

It is no secret that women love oral sex.  Isn’t it nice to know exactly what it is that they love about it?

This unfortunate television talk show personality has somewhat of a brain fart when it comes to Turkey calling technology. After seeing this rather genius sounding animal call device demonstrated right in front of her, she decides to take it to a whole new level. The call device does not require the user to orally produce any noise, but apparently this woman cannot help but want to blow inside of this dark rubber hole. Something her co-host is quick to point out on air as he removes the Turkey caller from her face. So funny.