Being in sex biz, talking about oral sex is like talking about what you’re going to have for lunch. It happens often and it isn’t all that shocking. I totally love what I do, but I have long since forgotten what it is like to talk about sex in a not-so-everyday way. I like to think I know a thing or two about oral sex and that I what I have to say is pretty useful. But, when you want to know what women want and like, I think it is pretty important to hear what women that don’t necessarily eat, sleep and breathe sex – in the most work related of ways – have to say . Well, perhaps a couple of ladies that do that too. I decided to poll some of my friends with two basic questions: What do you like the most about giving oral sex? What do you like the most about receiving oral sex?
These ladies all come from different backgrounds with varying sexual orientations. The one thing they all have in common is that they are all awesome. Here is what they had to say:
Giving: “I like giving oral sex because it helps get me in the mood too. I think the best part is making the other person like putty in your hands.”
Receiving: “What I love most about receiving oral sex is that I can turn my brain off and just be completely in the moment, without a care in the world!!”
-Jenn
Giving: “I like when the guy makes noise – it lets me know I’m doing a good job! Complete silence weirds me out.”
Receiving: “I wouldn’t know – it’s been too long! Sad face.”
-Richelle
Giving: “When it comes to oral sex, what I love most is the taste; the warm, wet delicate skin; the reaction. Yum.”
Receiving: “I don’t particularly enjoy receiving oral sex. I need a lot of pressure on my clit, and licking just doesn’t ever do it for me.”
-J.D.
Giving: “I get a great deal of pleasure knowing that I’m pleasing my partner. The better the orgasm for them, the better mine will be. In fact it’s like foreplay. It gets me aroused and ready, like stretching before a good run.”
Receiving: “I’m clitorally stimulated much easier than vanginally. The more oral sex, the better. I also find that oral sex has a certain sensitivity, when done right it’s both passionate and caring; and can set a tone for a long session of sex or prolonged orgasm.”
-Sophie
Giving: “Bringing pleasure to others makes me happy and I like doing things I know I’m good at. And in general I find it really arousing, bodies are sexy to me.”
Receiving: “It feels great and it gives my partner an opportunity to showcase their talents.”
-Dr. Timmaree
Giving: Well, I enjoy the slurping sound, just like a popsicle. It makes me feel as good as it sounds.
-Kelli
Giving: “I enjoy pleasing my partner and he goes nuts (no pun intended) when I give him oral. Plus I feel like I am in the driver seat in this situation.”
Receiving: “For me on the other hand I don’t need to receive oral all the time. I like to keep it to an “every once in a while” thing as I feel like it keeps the novelty of it alive. I’m all for it, but most times I’m more turned on by vaginal intercourse.”
-Rosalee
Giving: I love the control part. I can make him cum, or make it feel like a backrub; relaxing and undeniably awesome. I also love to make him feel good. It makes me feel good.
Receiving: 2 Things. First, I love that the lucky man going down on me has no reservations about my body, and he loves it as much as I do. Number 2 would be the orgasm that I will soon acheive.
-Leslie
It is no secret that women love oral sex. Isn’t it nice to know exactly what it is that they love about it?