One of the most pressing topics related to oral sex is the ever-looming stigma of degradation. Many people do not enjoy giving oral sex because they feel degraded when doing so. This prompted us to look deeper into how those who like giving oral sex feel when they do.
Featured below are the opinions of three different major female players within the adult industry today. Camille Crimson, Misti Dawn and Jayda Diamonde were all asked the same set of questions focused on their personal viewpoints of giving oral sex.
Their answers are very interesting in comparison to those who feel the opposite.
Camille Crimson
Owner and Star of TheArtofBlowjob.com
Do you enjoy giving oral sex? Why?
Yes, I certainly do. For me, the power of giving someone pleasure is extremely erotic. Being skilled at oral sex and knowing that I really turn my partner on is a really passionate and connected experience.
Have you given oral sex to both men and women?
Yes I have. I’ve definitely given more blowjobs, since I run a blowjob website, but I’ve had experience with women as well.
Do your personal feelings differ between giving men Oral Sex and giving women Oral Sex?
Not at all. I think some people are conditioned to think that giving a man pleasure is somehow degrading whereas giving a woman pleasure (whether from a man or a woman) is about respecting her sexuality. I think that, in both cases, it’s about respecting sexuality and exploring new possibilities.
Do you feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?
Not at all! I feel empowered and enthusiastic and really excited. Giving pleasure is a huge turn on!
Do you have any advice for women who feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?
I think it’s just important to look at the context of the situation. Would your partner feel degraded giving you pleasure?
Talk to your partner about respecting you (not calling you names you don’t like, not pushing you to do things you feel uncomfortable with, not being too dominant while receiving oral sex) and make sure that you get the respect you deserve. But putting your mouth on someone’s genitals is in no way demeaning in and of itself. As long as he surrounding elements are all respectful, just focus on the joy of giving pleasure and you’ll find yourself starting to get aroused.
Misti Dawn
Adult Star & Owner of TheNaughtyNerd.com
Do you enjoy giving oral sex? Why?
I do.. BUT to people i care about. When giving it for work, its typically just work unless its someone i know/care about. But giving oral in real life is much different. I find giving oral sex to my partner to be very pleasurable and enjoyable for both parties. To put someone in your mouth is a very personal thing to do, and to see the look of enjoyment on their face when you look up is very satisfying.
Have you given oral sex to both men and women?
Yes, and i enjoy doing both.
Do your personal feelings differ between giving men Oral Sex and giving women Oral Sex?
Not one bit.
Do you feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?
Not at all. It can be a submissive or dominant thing. You can be in control of their pleasure or be submissive in pleasing them.
Do you have any advice for women who feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?
I would say look to why you feel it’s degrading and what parts seem that way to you. Did you have a bad experience? Then you can address how to remove those things from oral sex that cause you to feel degraded by it.
Jayda Diamonde
Adult Star & Owner of CamSharks.com
Do you enjoy giving oral sex? Why?
Do I enjoy it??? Well, I wouldn’t say I simply enjoy it, actually… I LOVE IT!!
I pride myself on taking a fat thick cock balls deep with NO hands! I love the feeling and it actually make me cum sometimes!! Oral sex done right, can be one of your mans most favorite things. Lets face it, its a different world for men. Sex doesn’t always come easy for men, like it can for any women. Guys cant just walk in a bar and go “I want to get laid”. Its a tough world out there and when I can satisfy my man at a moments notice on my knees, whats not to enjoy?
Have you given oral sex to both men and women?
Of course I have performed oral on men and women and I’ve had it done on me from both sexes, sometime at the same time!
Do your personal feelings differ between giving men Oral Sex and giving women Oral Sex?
As far as giving it goes, I prefer giving oral to men. There is nothing quite like the feeling of stuffing a huge fat cock all the way down my throat with no hands and looking and listening to the man as he can sit back, relax and really let himself go.
Do you feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?
Degraded? Of course not. Oral sex is just another part of the long list of sexual pleasures I believe everyone should be able to enjoy. There is nothing degrading about oral sex in my opinion in any way. To the contrary, I believe it is a way to really connect with that person on an intimate level and assure that your man can really enjoy himself to the fullest. Oral sex is a great way to show just how much you appreciate your partner.
Do you have any advice for women who feel degraded when giving Oral Sex?
Well, I feel sorry for anyone, man or woman that feels degraded when giving oral sex. Oral sex is a beautiful thing that allows you to show your deepest desire to please your partner on a one on one intimate level. It isn’t a bad thing, like your mother may have told you. I suggest that all men and women embrace your sexuality and open your horizons to another type of sexual pleasure that can really keep your partner cumming back for more!
