In Today’s thoughts on Oral Sex — How to have responsible Oral Sex on the Record!
Hey you exhibitionists and sexy geeks, it’s safe to say that home videos are a little more… complex… than they used to be, right? Sex on film is one of my favorite topics, and D.I.Y. smut is a lot more versatile than you might think. I know that only a small percentage of men & women out there aspire to become porn stars– yet the majority of sex scenes made are not mass produced… they’re shot in your bedrooms you dirty girls & boys! That’s OK with me though! I’m definitely on board with occasional self made entertainment– and I have some surprising options you may not have considered…
It’s important to know that not all D.I.Y. porno is equal. Many potential starlets shy away from their private spotlight due to the (extremely rational) fear that the sensitive content could somehow go viral. Yikes! So while you’re the only one who knows what will be appropriate for your private (and possibly public) life– you should know there are safe & discrete ways to fulfill those naughty inclinations. Creating your own Oral Sex flick, no matter how vanilla or kinky, can be fun and exhilarating!
A good first thing to consider when you get started is, Level of Exposure: It’s important to establish clear boundaries right from the gate, so you can relax & enjoy great head while the camera’s rolling.
Preparation is important for two reasons:
1.) Making important decisions in the heat of the moment might result in a loose tape somewhere down the line.
2.) Making important decisions in the heat of the moment can be distracting from the great oral sex you’re about to share! So, Figure out who will be permitted to view this intimate content & have ownership beforehand (If you doubt your partner’s ability to keep things hush, hush, don’t allow them to tote a copy!). For extra security — there’s also the option of a “Secret Identity”!
Tips for A Secret Idenity:
- You can experiment with heavy makeup, silk scarves, lingerie, costumes, and other accessories to conceal elements of your identity.
- A trick I like to use is manipulating the light to create a silhouette (which is a great option for performers having body art they would prefer to conceal) by performing in between the light source and camera lens (creating “back light”). This is particularly hot when you’re shooting oral sex from the side!
- P.O.V., or Point Of View shooting, is a great option for partners who might have different levels of comfort with exposure (When the more outgoing performer is going down — have the recipient hold the camera and shoot!).
- An option could be deleting the sexy evidence right after you’ve watched it, or you can hook up the view on your equipment straight to the TV without recording– this allows you to watch while playing AND offers NO lingering footage!
Once all the kinks are worked out — you’re ready for ACTION! Go for it! With proper boundaries in place, you can now relax and let your fantasies take hold! You can use this new technique to reenact your favorite professional oral sex scenes, discover new kinky perspectives, and improve your form!
Observing your own Oral Sex on film is a uniquely arousing experience, and one you’ll likely be revisiting. You never know what you might discover in your very own Porno!
