I often have some of my very best ideas while I’m in the shower… While washing my legs last night I began thinking about how I want to shave my pussy this week, or not. I stood there with soap in hand, rubbing the bubbles all over my neck… and it sort of dawned on me that I should write about the relationship between pubic hair and oral sex. I also realized that I probably give more thought to the aesthetics of my “bikini zone” than the average individual.
When discussing oral sex– body hair tends to be a topic which most consider an afterthought. Though what I’ve discovered with sex is sometimes it’s the “afterthoughts” that can make things incredible. The nuances, details, temperature, moistness, etc. So as seemingly insignificant as it may seem– there’s totally a time and place for a bit of stylized cock & pussy. Several articles and surveys have listed “a clean bikini zone” as being one of the top sexual confidence boosters among women. Though I haven’t read any similar material concerning men– the feedback I’ve received agrees. Of course being well groomed and utilizing forethought is a confidence booster! I think there might be a little more to it than general aesthetic though.
Beyond the visual and tangible appeal, waxing, shaving, and trimming do offer less obvious benefits. I consider intimate manicuring to be a highly personal and empowering experience. Regardless of occupation, orientation, or gender– I think that it’s one of the most personal expressions of sex & style we utilize. For those who don’t lead porn star lives, it’s an opportunity to take on something slightly deviant– and the only person(s) who will know are whom you exclusively invite! The true beauty of any statement made with a renewable medium (namely hair), is that you can always change it!