Intercourse, Role Play, Anal Sex, Petting, Foot Jobs, Fetish, Foreplay, Masturbation, Cunnilingus, Tit Jobs, Fingering, Exhibitionism, Fantasy, Kissing, Spanking, Groping, Sex Toys, Threesomes, Licking, Voyeurism, Cos Play, Squirting, Auto Asphyxiation, Orgies, Hand Jobs, Sucking, Teasing, BDSM, Deep Throat, Food Play… The possibilities are almost as overwhelming as walking into a Mega-Mart without a list! Having too many options often results in sensory overload, and thus a less exciting turn out. Even the most spontaneous and daring explorers are subject to the occasional “rut” or fall back into familiar territory.
In an effort to sift through the hot mess — I thought it might be fun to share some tips, techniques, & suggestions acquired from a list of my personal faves, as well as a few from friends and co-stars in the industry! When I’m lost in a sea of over sexxxed mania, I get busy with these devilish moves…
1.) Technology and Sex: Sexting (sexy texting) puts convenient seduction right at the tip of your agile digits– it’s the foreplay of the future! Why not incorporate some filth into your daily grind? I’m partial to dirty fill in the blank sexts such as: “Later I’m going to ____ your ____ till you ____. I won’t stop till you ___ (#) times.”
2.) Location, Location, Location!: One of my girlfriends in Adult, RyAnne, suggests a classic throwback– Road head! She notes though to pick a mellow back road to allow for some responsible, irresponsibility… Sometimes the same old same old has brand new effectiveness with a little change of scenery… There’s just something about that spontaneous, slightly reckless, junior-year-method that never disappoints. Personally, I like to get all hot and bothered in public… Or almost in public. I love going out to gorgeous Italian & French restaurants because they usually have the long opaque white table cloths. With French and Italian being major romance languages, I’m not surprised that they offer patrons subtle cover from the waist down at every table. My suggestion… Take advantage of each other while hiding in plain sight.
3.) Hot Mess!: Porn star and good friend, Ariel Adore’s Oral Tip? “Don’t Be Afraid To Get Messy!” I really couldn’t agree more! Come on let’s face it, sex is dirty! The pinnacle moment of sex is the raunchiest, wettest, and messiest part, right? There’s no way to get around it, and why should we try? Making a mess is awesome… For those who haven’t given it a try, I’d recommend this mess making technique– Try a facial! It won’t hurt I swear, but it’s not a bad idea to try closing your eyes the first time (if you’re on the receiving end of course). Facials are a fun & free way to inject some porntastic activity into your Oral Life. Here’s why… He will love it because it offers instant gratification (he gets to see his raunchy accomplishment), a sexy view at his daring partner, and the thrill of trying out something sexually new. The partner will love it because it’s an exciting way to embrace climax, and possibly discovering a brand new turn on!
So that’s my naughty Oral Sex triple threat. I’ll be sure to keep an eye out for more sultry tips and techniques in the future, and continue to share some of my personal favorites! Sometimes talking about sex can be almost as fun as having it… Almost.
Xox
- Arden
Sexier Sex: 3 Ways
In an effort to sift through the hot mess — I thought it might be fun to share some tips, techniques, & suggestions acquired from a list of my personal faves, as well as a few from friends and co-stars in the industry! When I’m lost in a sea of over sexxxed mania, I get busy with these devilish moves…
1.) Technology and Sex: Sexting (sexy texting) puts convenient seduction right at the tip of your agile digits– it’s the foreplay of the future! Why not incorporate some filth into your daily grind? I’m partial to dirty fill in the blank sexts such as: “Later I’m going to ____ your ____ till you ____. I won’t stop till you ___ (#) times.”
2.) Location, Location, Location!: One of my girlfriends in Adult, RyAnne, suggests a classic throwback– Road head! She notes though to pick a mellow back road to allow for some responsible, irresponsibility… Sometimes the same old same old has brand new effectiveness with a little change of scenery… There’s just something about that spontaneous, slightly reckless, junior-year-method that never disappoints. Personally, I like to get all hot and bothered in public… Or almost in public. I love going out to gorgeous Italian & French restaurants because they usually have the long opaque white table cloths. With French and Italian being major romance languages, I’m not surprised that they offer patrons subtle cover from the waist down at every table. My suggestion… Take advantage of each other while hiding in plain sight.
3.) Hot Mess!: Porn star and good friend, Ariel Adore’s Oral Tip? “Don’t Be Afraid To Get Messy!” I really couldn’t agree more! Come on let’s face it, sex is dirty! The pinnacle moment of sex is the raunchiest, wettest, and messiest part, right? There’s no way to get around it, and why should we try? Making a mess is awesome… For those who haven’t given it a try, I’d recommend this mess making technique– Try a facial! It won’t hurt I swear, but it’s not a bad idea to try closing your eyes the first time (if you’re on the receiving end of course). Facials are a fun & free way to inject some porntastic activity into your Oral Life. Here’s why… He will love it because it offers instant gratification (he gets to see his raunchy accomplishment), a sexy view at his daring partner, and the thrill of trying out something sexually new. The partner will love it because it’s an exciting way to embrace climax, and possibly discovering a brand new turn on!
So that’s my naughty Oral Sex triple threat. I’ll be sure to keep an eye out for more sultry tips and techniques in the future, and continue to share some of my personal favorites! Sometimes talking about sex can be almost as fun as having it… Almost.
Xox
- Arden